Update on the Bachelorette Party and my trip to the hospital.
So both mine and FH's night wasn't what we hoped it would be.
On his end one of his GMs canceled their limo to the city so they just went out to eat and didn't go out afterwards, didn't get drunk, etc. and they didn't tell FH until the dinner was done and they were all like 'ok we're going home.' So he was disappointed, although he still had a good night overall.
On my end, one of my BMs who's been having problems lately, showed up at my other BM's as we were getting ready, already having pre-gammed at her place with half a bottle of vodka (which we didn't find out until we were at the hospital calling her D-bag boyfriend trying to figure out if she had taken pills or what she had drunk, etc. Anyways, we went out to a restaurant for dinner all glammed and ready to go clubbing at meat packing and towards the end of dinner she started crying in some guy's lap she picked up, then threw up, and then went into shock from alcohol poisoning and we had to take her to the hospital, thus ruining and ending the night. She's ok, but we were all annoyed with her for ruining things and I just hope this serves as a wake up call that she needs to leave her abusive BF and go to therapy for all of her problems.![]()
So I'm annoyed because my birthday party got canceled last year because FH's grandma died and we've been so poor I haven't gone clubbing in a year (when before FH I used to go almost every weekend) so that totally ruined things.![]()
And this is just another episode in a long line of destructive behavior on this end so half of me was worried and half of me was so livid I couldn't look at her. At this point, though, after years of telling her to get help, if she doesn't do that what more can I do? ![]()
On his end one of his GMs canceled their limo to the city so they just went out to eat and didn't go out afterwards, didn't get drunk, etc. and they didn't tell FH until the dinner was done and they were all like 'ok we're going home.' So he was disappointed, although he still had a good night overall.
On my end, one of my BMs who's been having problems lately, showed up at my other BM's as we were getting ready, already having pre-gammed at her place with half a bottle of vodka (which we didn't find out until we were at the hospital calling her D-bag boyfriend trying to figure out if she had taken pills or what she had drunk, etc. Anyways, we went out to a restaurant for dinner all glammed and ready to go clubbing at meat packing and towards the end of dinner she started crying in some guy's lap she picked up, then threw up, and then went into shock from alcohol poisoning and we had to take her to the hospital, thus ruining and ending the night. She's ok, but we were all annoyed with her for ruining things and I just hope this serves as a wake up call that she needs to leave her abusive BF and go to therapy for all of her problems.
So I'm annoyed because my birthday party got canceled last year because FH's grandma died and we've been so poor I haven't gone clubbing in a year (when before FH I used to go almost every weekend) so that totally ruined things.
