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UPDATED: So I need a hug, or a giggle if anyone has something fun to share....(long)

Original post by LFitzy79

So my boyfriend of almost two years, who I was anticipating proposing soon, just told me he thinks that we need a little break, to get some perspective....
how long of a break you ask? oh, about SIX MONTHS. Is he freaking kidding me???? This all started with a conversation thursday....where I told him that he didn't seem happy lately, and was it something that we could work on-he told me that he was sorry, that he knew he was distant, and that he didn't know what was on his mind. So I told him that we should take the weekend to ourselves, have some private time, and when he was ready to talk he should call me. I kept hoping that I would turn around and he'd be standing there with open arms. Well, today I walk into work, and that coward emailed me, at 2:30am, that he loves me, and that he wants us to be together but he thinks that this time apart is what we need, the whole if you love something set it free thing.....
I emailed him back that he was acting like a little boy, and that if this is truly what he feels, then lets discuss it tonight-can you believe that he hasn't written back to me yet-I don't know whether to laugh, cry or punch someone in the face.
The pathetic thing is that I love him....I know that we had some problems, but I didn't think I was that bad that he needs 6 months away from me.....
Here's the kicker-my family re-union is this weekend, my sisters wedding (I am the MOH) is 8/13/05, and a couple that we are close to is having thier wedding 8/27/05...lovely. I feel like such a D I C K.
Sorry I needed to vent.

ETA: Well, he never called, and I didn't call him. And he never wrote back to my email. So, I guess it's over-I think the six month thing was his way of ending it because he couldn't say 'I want to break up'.....
Thanks everyone for your hugs and support. I felt that something was wrong-I gave him an out, and he took it. I just have to get over it. I truly love him, and I really do want him to be happy-and I wish that being with me was what he wanted, but um....clearly it's not.
And I hope that one day he realizes what we had together.
Anyway, thanks guys.
beautyq115 Posted:

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CalJoe0124 Posted:

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Hang in there, lots of hugs for you!
lilmrs Posted:

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more for you.
MrsP2Be Posted:

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I dated a Todd and he dumped me...then I met my FH's 3 months later and his name is Todd. I don't know what it is about that name, but you may find another one.. and please don't hold it against him if he has the same name.
marymoon Posted:

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sarahthegreat Posted:

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that s u cks - i think email has got to be the lamest way to end a relationship, what a wuss.
slwh2005 Posted:

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I'm sorry. I've been there. My ex of 7 years did the whole 'break' thing. It was awful. He ended up being done with his 'break' 9 months later, but I had moved on by then. His loss. It was so hard at the time, but now I am so glad because I met FH and he is so much better.
tjs Posted:

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First I want to say im sorry I know first hand what you are going through and trust me it will get better!!! My ex we were together 7 yrs did the break thing and i was devistated but i was stupid and waited around hoping waiting for him to come back then one day i woke up and thought who the hell are you......and got on with my life it was the best thing that happened to me!!! Trust me i know you dont want to hear this but everything happens for a reason !! I am so happy with my FH and now see what it is to truly be loved and treated well! YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!! Good luck and i KNOW you will find true love and happiness---in the mean time you can always post pics of him on a men seeking men website!!! LOL
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