I'm seriously thinking about ditching the whole wedding idea and going to vegas!!! Or just sneaking off somewhere on an island, just the two of us and marrying each other then!
This wedding is stressing me out and the money! OMG im broke!
anyone ever feel the same?
LnF0405
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I had that same nervous break down like 3 weeks ago ( i post it).... but then I though that will regreted in a couple of years (I am only child and I had always dream about my wedding)..... I hope this help.
P.S. This chat gave me strength to continue with my plans.
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I keep saying 'OH MY GOD I DONT EVEN WANT A WEDDING ANYMORE!' and then I sit back and realize that there are still TWO YEARS until we walk down the isle, so that slightly calms me....along with the fact that I get yelled at by my FH everytime I say that. lmao He's so helpful.
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i feel the same way. i just had this same convo with my Fh the other day about cant we just elop and not tell n e one and we will be married becuase i cant wait 2years and not only that the money is so tight i dont know how we are going to afford it..
I feel your pain also...
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I think I remember that post...I dont know now the whole idea of everyone being there is bothering me.
At first I liked the idea of having a big thing, now its like Im stuck between a rock and a hard place-just a little confused
No doubts about him as a person, or a husband, but doubts about a big wedding..
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LOL we JUST had this fight yesterday. i told my FH that i just dont feel like dealing with a big wedding. I said it from the beginning, i would LOVE if just me and him could go an get married, and then come home 2 weeks later. That would be my choice if it were just up to me!
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I know lately all my friends have been fighting with their bf's-me and him have really been going at it!
Thats why i just feel this way today-maybe tommorrow I'll be like what was I thinking?! I wish I could pull off the wedding of my dreams and then have money left over!!!
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The conversation I had last night with FH was, lets keep it really super small like IMMEDIATE family, we'll get married, and then just like go out to a fancy restaurant so we can have money to buy a house instead of getting stuck the black hole that is RENTING (dramatic music) lol
But he said that he know that I 'really want a wedding' which is a load of crap...but whatev. Love him anyway.
(I edited b/c you cant type s u c k e d apparently we're 12 years old)
DonnaPWhite1124
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I know. Well im in that hole right now. Its not too bad. We're paying really cheap rent for the space we have. Our landlady is really old and the house has been paid off for decades now...but still that money could go towards a house ya know?
But yeah if she were to sell, we'd be up a creek without a paddle!!!
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I have the same thought every day. But our family would be disappointed if they could not be there to share the day with us.
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I bring it up time to time just pick up and run.
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I wish I could do that.... but FH would nver ever go for it... he's more into the traditional wedding than i am!
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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124
I'm seriously thinking about ditching the whole wedding idea and going to vegas!!! Or just sneaking off somewhere on an island, just the two of us and marrying each other then!
This wedding is stressing me out and the money! OMG im broke!
anyone ever feel the same?
Well you already know how i feel LOL
The people we see all the time and love will be there with us and we'll still have money left over so we are not in a hole when we are married. Just my opinon and im really doing it lol!!!
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lol FH wants to elope AND have the wedding... he's such the glutton. I'm actually enjoying this so far... we shall see how it goes.
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i tried to convice FH since the day we were engaged to have a destination wedding. its sooo much cheaper and really beautiful. i used to leave pics of places up on the computer hoping he'd see and change his mind. butttt it didnt go over well he wants the big wedding. and now that we have starting booking things i realize i kinda do too. its just soo much money!!!
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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124
I'm seriously thinking about ditching the whole wedding idea and going to vegas!!! Or just sneaking off somewhere on an island, just the two of us and marrying each other then!
This wedding is stressing me out and the money! OMG im broke!
anyone ever feel the same?
I wish but, I want my son and mom to be there.
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I'd like Elvis to marry me sometimes i really do lol
I thought of that also. But I think I would regret it.
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my father would love that, he jokes about that happening. i really know deep down inside tho he wants to walk me down that altar and let me have my day!
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i feel the same way and i havent even started planning too much
