$$$$$ vent!!!

Ok so I’m totally freaking out. FH told me last night that he mom has around 40 people to add to the guest list (FMIL and FFIL guest list is already up to 80, while mine is only at 50 and my parents gave us more than enough $ to cover their family) I said to FH I hope she has $4,000 to pay for them??? Hes like don’t worry about $, we’ll be fine. I’m like what if we don’t have enough $?? and i started rambling about who we still owe what to and hes like we’ll if we need $ we’ll ask my parents for it or charge it. Hes like we’ll make it back anyway. I’m like I’m sure we will, but key word is back. we also need to have all $ paid in cash to the reception hall at least a month before the wedding. Also the final payments for limo, church, dj, and photog need to be paid in cash. Hes like oh don’t worry we’ll have it. Um hello, I’m worried!!! his parents have been saying since we got engaged that they will give us $ for the wedding. we have yet to see a penny of it other than them throwing us our e-party in their backyard. don't get me wrong i'm very greateful about that, but its just ridiculous FIL's has yet to give us the acutal figure. is there a nice to ask FMIL how much she's giving us? when i ask FH if hes asked hes like don't worry we'll be fine. i think over the weekend i'm going to write out how much we still need to spend on everything so FH can see why i'm stressing.



UPDATE:
so i spoke to FMIL after work. she was all excited talking to me about the wedding and i was excited too. i said i can't wait but i'm just worried about $. i have no problem with u inviting whoever you want, i'm just worried about paying for them. then she says aww sweetie anyone who we add to the guest list we will pay for. i was like good, then add on as many as u want. can we say relieved? i'm so called i called and talked to her. thanks for all the hugs and advice ladies!!