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Does anyone else have so many ideas at first and then being told constantly that you can't have what you want? Mine is turning into a list for everything. First wanted to go on an Alaskian cruise for honeymoon but our date just missed the cutoff time frame (they don't cruise after the week before my wedding), said ok and booked Italy. Then the original hall I wanted was too much money, ok booked another that I like. Wanted cupcakes instead of reg cake but issues are preventing that too and now I just found out that none of my friends aren't attending my bachelorette party..... I know that things work out but I feel like I can't want anything a certain way anymore because I know it won't happen and that I have no control on planning....Sorry for venting but thanks for reading.

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think of it this way....things happen for a reason

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I believe that too....

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i feel the same with a lot of things lately - so i know how you feel

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Sorry this is happening to you!!!
I had so many frustrations with my wedding planning that I wanted to elope a couple of times. It wasn't that I was told that I couldn't have what I wanted so much as things just weren't working out in so many areas and so many people were disappointing me left and right (that was the hardest thing to deal with!!!)... The important thing is that you are dealing with it and not letting it get in the way of your dream wedding...you rebooked your HM, found another RH, and maybe you can reschedule your bachelorette party??
You will get through this!!

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I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I understand your pain and my advice is to think of all the things you ARE getting!

Only 4 of my friends are coming to bachelorette party. I'm a disappointed because I had gone to all of theirs.

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you have no idea how happy it makes me to know that others feel the same. Not happy that others are going through it, just that i'm not alone. I think its just the stress. well only 42 more days to go and it will be just me and FH. I just have to keep chanting that to myself.

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Hey date twin... I feel your pain... the day is getting so close, and everything is getting under my skin lately! It's just a super stressful time and I just can't wait for the day to finally get here!!!! Just keep reminding yourself of how amazing and relaxing your honeymoon will be!!!

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I think this happens a lot when it comes to planning a wedding, but like others have said, just remember things have a funny way of working out & they happen for a reason