I'm sorry if this offends you in any way but I have to say it....
I am sooo tired of hearing rants about FMIL, FFIL, Mom, Dad, Stepdad, Stepmom, whatever else you have being too involved/not invovled enough in your planning. Stop your whining and be happy that they are all alive and well and are going to be there on your wedding day. Who cares if they don't want to go to a meeting or want to plan 1034745 more meetings for you to go to? What's important is that they are happy for you and are there to support you on your big day. FH won't have his mom at our wedding and I won't have my stepdad either (both passed in the past few years from cancer), and I would rather trade them not being there for them being here and being the biggest PITA ever any day! So to hear petty anger over the stupidest stuff makes me soooo mad/sad
Sorry but I had to get to get that off my chest
Rosalind_75
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wow. tell me how you really feel
sometimes people just need to vent
regy_k
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ye exactly, sometimes ppl need an outlet for small/big irritations, and need somewhere to let it all out, it doesnt mean they dont appreciate their parents being here
DaniandKen2010
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I understand where you are coming from I lost my dad from a heart attack in 98 and my mom to cancer in 07 but if they were alive I would be venting just as much as everyone and I do vent about my FILs who I love but drive me CRAZY!
brittndave
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yup I know that ... and mine was just another vent like everyone elses
plus i like to start trouble
grkbarbie
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good to know some1 is keeping it real
Becca2010
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I'm just going to sit back and let this happen!
christine2010
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i agree i understand where u r coming from (as FHs dad passed 2 years ago) but a lot of the girls use the site to vent to people who are in a similar situation. many times something that upsets me, a friend or my sister, thinks i am overreacting. so i vent here & many of the girls give some good advice. odds are that most of us will have to deal with the same issues during the process.
mag2010
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I admire your honesty. Also agree that we should be thankful for the family we have and think about what it would be like if they were not around when they start to get on your nerves.