Vent--BM dresses

I have yet to pick out my BM dresses because both of my matron's of honor (my sisters) are expecting :). We probably won't be able to order the dresses until December which is fine because the bridal shop said that you only need 3 to 4 months for BM dresses. I thought I would take my other BMs to look early so we can pick a style and discuss it with my MOH. Well so far no one has wanted to go do this. My one BM has ignored my inquires totally and has yet to get back to me regarding a date. I have asked nothing of BMs to this time and don't know why this is such a project. The same BM who has ignored me, didn't show up to my e-pary because she had her boyfriends cousin b-day party the same day. She didn't even send a card....AHHHH Sorry for the vent but this is so annoying....

i feel that it should be an honor for someone to be a bm at least thats how i would feel if i were asked to be a bm
you pick the dress if she wont go pick it is your wedding anyway

There should be a new tradition in weddings, NO BRIDESMAIDS. My girl shave been giving me hard times here and there. If you get that angry, CUT HER!!!! You do not need the aggravation.

I'll go with you, we can talk aboiut the FoxHollow