vent - i am being a little crazy here I know but...

elp6421 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 08:27 AM

vent - i am being a little crazy here I know but...

I seriously dislike when other girls text my FH all night!! I know it sounds ridiculous, but it seriously gets to me.

Jna2010 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 08:29 AM

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um that doesnt sound ridiculous, i would be pretty annoyed myself! why r girls texting him all night?

soontobecruz Posted: Mar 04, 2010 08:29 AM

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I would text them back and say

he is sleeping...
next to his fiance....
stop texting this late

Seriously I would have no shame with that stuff. Clearly they have no shame in texting him all hours of the night

Lsorrent Posted: Mar 04, 2010 08:30 AM

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Don't even get me started on this..............FH and I have had MANY fights over this.

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Mar 04, 2010 08:31 AM

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Do you text guys?

I regularly text one of my best friends (a guy) probably at least 10-20 times a day, and another guy friend a couple times a week. FH has a close girl friend and they text and talk on the phone on the regular. It doesn't bother him that I text my guy friends, and it doesn't bother me that he texts his girl friends.

elp6421 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 08:32 AM

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well she was texting him about a paper for school. BUT seriously.. he let me read the texts and you know when you can just tell she wants him to keep talking to her ... hats what it was.

I really don't like feeling jealous or being the crazy fiance but seriously, I think its just disrespectful.

Lil OC Posted: Mar 04, 2010 08:36 AM

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Not crazy. I would flip!

StaceyWill Posted: Mar 04, 2010 08:38 AM

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Posted by Lil OC

Not crazy. I would flip!

Same here

jackieee Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:30 AM

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I wouldn't like that at all. neither would FH. We both don't have close girl or guy friends though, and I think it would be weird if we started now yaknow?

If it's a close friend he's always had, I guess I'd let it go.

But that s hit would piss me off!

MrsSx2 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:32 AM

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Uhmmmm thats not ridiculous!!! I'd sooooo let FH have it on that one!

Golden Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:33 AM

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I totally agree with the ladies, this is not ridiculous AT ALL! You need to have a boundaries conversation with FH because they only do it because he ALLOWS it. He needs to let his female friends know that he's with you spending QT at night and they speak to him between 9am and 5pm, lol except on saturdays and sundays...lol....no but seriously, tell him it's not cool and he wouldn't want men texting you all night...BOUNDARIES are very important in ANY relationship.

mariedsgn Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:34 AM

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I would be mad!

MisyMiss32 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:38 AM

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I would have issues with that as well. You both need to set some boundries.

AdriandSteve Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:39 AM

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I wouldn't be bothered by it unless it was happening before she started on this paper or if it continues after it's complete.

whispersamethyst Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:44 AM

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You are completely justified to get mad at this situation. If it seems like she's doing it to keep him talking to her, then her intentions are clearly not good. Either he needs to set her straight or you do.

lissylissa Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:51 AM

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You're not crazy at all I wld also get mad about that

Panamasweet Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:54 AM

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your not crazy at all. Its just disrespectful to you and his fiancee

regy_k Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:58 AM

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Posted by StaceyWill

Posted by Lil OC

Not crazy. I would flip!

Same here

me too. and I actually did over the same exact situation.
as someone said ppl need to know boundaries

jennybee Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:01 AM

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I would be upset and a little jealous. I wouldn't blow my top, but I would let FH know that he should keep it to just business with her and not text in to the wee hours.

I agree, it's all about boundaries and you guys should talk about establishing some with her.

Shamrocknkate Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:17 AM

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I would be upset but, like the other girls said, with FH not the girl. Its up to him to set boundries. It doesn't sound like this girl is a friend of his anyway.
If it's not his Mom or family member there is no reason why anyone should be texting or calling after 10pm! Call me old fashioned but thats the way I grew up.