vent - i am being a little crazy here I know but...

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Posted by shelbylove918

ummm.. let me just tell you something.. I met fH away at work not to long ago. and there was a girls from another region there.. 1 girl in particular had her fiance come up to visit while i was down.. they are like snookie and the situation... she dresses like a scank to get him pissed.. he called her a hoe all night infront of people.. and at the end of the night she texted MY fiance that she was scared.. and he wrote back im in bed is everythign ok.. she then says , yah im a big girl i can handle it.. he says ok.. then she says.. 'bte.. your super attractive'.. when she knows im rigth there with him.. I FLIPPPED A LID!!!!!! Its totally unaccapetable to me!!! some girls just crave attention.. He never wrote back cause he was caught off guard and couldnt believe it..

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OMG!! This would seriously make me so mad!! Ok girls, thanks for your thoughts! I am def going to talk with him some more about this tonight
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Posted by shelbylove918

ummm.. let me just tell you something.. I met fH away at work not to long ago. and there was a girls from another region there.. 1 girl in particular had her fiance come up to visit while i was down.. they are like snookie and the situation... she dresses like a scank to get him pissed.. he called her a hoe all night infront of people.. and at the end of the night she texted MY fiance that she was scared.. and he wrote back im in bed is everythign ok.. she then says , yah im a big girl i can handle it.. he says ok.. then she says.. 'bte.. your super attractive'.. when she knows im rigth there with him.. I FLIPPPED A LID!!!!!! Its totally unaccapetable to me!!! some girls just crave attention.. He never wrote back cause he was caught off guard and couldnt believe it..

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yeah? that girl would have no hair left after I got through w her! lol

SAY WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

There's a time and place for everything... Your fiance is lucky you're not me.. That 'friend' and her 'paper' would've been kicked in the ovaries!!!! There's a time and place for everything.. You discuss paper in SCHOOL.. not over texts at night.. Learn it.. Live it.. Love it..

Get the efff out of here... !!!! Girls are trashy..they usually don't care if the guy is getting married.. you need to set her straight..!!! ( I can't find a super angry smiley.. but that's what I REALLY want to use).

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by shelbylove918

ummm.. let me just tell you something.. I met fH away at work not to long ago. and there was a girls from another region there.. 1 girl in particular had her fiance come up to visit while i was down.. they are like snookie and the situation... she dresses like a scank to get him pissed.. he called her a hoe all night infront of people.. and at the end of the night she texted MY fiance that she was scared.. and he wrote back im in bed is everythign ok.. she then says , yah im a big girl i can handle it.. he says ok.. then she says.. 'bte.. your super attractive'.. when she knows im rigth there with him.. I FLIPPPED A LID!!!!!! Its totally unaccapetable to me!!! some girls just crave attention.. He never wrote back cause he was caught off guard and couldnt believe it..

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yeah? that girl would have no hair left after I got through w her! lol

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trust me.. If he wasnt away for work I would have said something to her.. but I had to keep my cool cause I didnt want him to get introuble and I figured this girl had issues beyond our control!!! just felt sorry for someone to stoop so low!!!

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Posted by shelbylove918

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by shelbylove918

ummm.. let me just tell you something.. I met fH away at work not to long ago. and there was a girls from another region there.. 1 girl in particular had her fiance come up to visit while i was down.. they are like snookie and the situation... she dresses like a scank to get him pissed.. he called her a hoe all night infront of people.. and at the end of the night she texted MY fiance that she was scared.. and he wrote back im in bed is everythign ok.. she then says , yah im a big girl i can handle it.. he says ok.. then she says.. 'bte.. your super attractive'.. when she knows im rigth there with him.. I FLIPPPED A LID!!!!!! Its totally unaccapetable to me!!! some girls just crave attention.. He never wrote back cause he was caught off guard and couldnt believe it..

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yeah? that girl would have no hair left after I got through w her! lol

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trust me.. If he wasnt away for work I would have said something to her.. but I had to keep my cool cause I didnt want him to get introuble and I figured this girl had issues beyond our control!!! just felt sorry for someone to stoop so low!!!

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No offense, but when a bi&ch f***ks with my relationship.. s**t is going to go down.. No matter where we are.. THERE IS NO EXCUSE!!!! That would would be the end of her!!!! (WHERE IS THAT SUPER ANGRY SMILEY AGAIN???) Lol

*sorry still learning how to quote lol

u r not wrong. not the same situation but back when FH and i started dating, my ex called me at like 2am. FH was like umm thats never happening again and i put the kabash on it. its disrespectful to him.
ur FH needs to tell that girl that its not ok to text him a million times at night.

the only girls that text FH are his daughters...and his sister.

He would be mad if guys texted me...

CLEARLY im the odd man out... i dont really see the problem.

Now if it was 1am thats an issue but would be an issue for a guy too since its a respect thing.

Getting texts from girls in general would not bother me. I trust him to know what is disrespectful to me and we go from there.

He goes out with his friends and girls are there and i trust him then too... i donno maybe im weird.

I have guys frined when we started dating i told him that i slept at their houses and while i would no longer sleep in their bed ( me and my friends are odddly close.... it has NEVER crossed line) but that i wouldnt change my friendships.

I feel his friends made him the man i love and he should keep them,

but again if it was in the middle of the night, or a flirtatious text then id be mad...

ok... you can tar and feather me now

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Posted by Panamasweet

your not crazy at all. Its just disrespectful to you and his fiancee

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I agree. I think its rude on a whole to call someone after 9 unless it is an extreme emergency

idk things like that don't bother me, but maybe i'm odd
and a lot of times in school i would be up until 1/2 am doing papers

heck i still call ppl that late on like a tues night

It depends on the situation and how good of a friend she is. FH has a friend who texts and he does too but I completely trust him and her intentions.

If it were someone I didn't know or feel comfortable with, I'd be upset. Girls can be very sneaky!!

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Posted by APastries2010

CLEARLY im the odd man out... i dont really see the problem.

Now if it was 1am thats an issue but would be an issue for a guy too since its a respect thing.

Getting texts from girls in general would not bother me. I trust him to know what is disrespectful to me and we go from there.

He goes out with his friends and girls are there and i trust him then too... i donno maybe im weird.

I have guys frined when we started dating i told him that i slept at their houses and while i would no longer sleep in their bed ( me and my friends are odddly close.... it has NEVER crossed line) but that i wouldnt change my friendships.

I feel his friends made him the man i love and he should keep them,

but again if it was in the middle of the night, or a flirtatious text then id be mad...

ok... you can tar and feather me now

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There's a few of us odd men out with this ITA with you on all points...including the 'sleeping in a bed with a guy friend and not anymore b/c I'm in a relationship' thing...I used to do the same. We're just weirdos, Ali. And I'm okay with that.