Vent, one of my friends...sorry long
Yesterday I got together with one of my friends, which I have known for awhile now and she was planning to have a wedding next year as well, but bc she was too late in looking for a place she had to push it back until 2010. Mind you they got married in City Hall 1 1/2 years ago already.
Anyways, so I am really excited about all the planning I have done so far and dress shopping and stuff and I sent her the link to the website of the hotel where we are planning the wedding and told her what our plans are and she had not a nice thing to say about anything. i got a very negative, almost bitchy vibe from her and it really frustrated me.![]()
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I think our plans are great and they fit whatever we have in mind but she was almost making faces most of the time, kind like: 'Really, thats what you are doing?'. Agghh. For example, we are planning to hire somebody to do the decorations, which is pretty normal for me, especially since we have a destination wedding and again she gave me that look and said, well my mom will do the decorating stuff for us....arrghh.
Also I told her that we have about 300 people that we have to invite, bc FH's family is huge and also the wedding will be in Turkey, where it is very traditionel to have bigger weddings. Actually our friends alone are already 100 people...and again she gave me this look and said well we have between 80 and 100 and I would never want more people there and I would refuse to invite more...i was like Hello you are an only child and they both have small families, so well that works best for her, but I never gave her attitude....
Sorry too long...
Anyways, so I am really excited about all the planning I have done so far and dress shopping and stuff and I sent her the link to the website of the hotel where we are planning the wedding and told her what our plans are and she had not a nice thing to say about anything. i got a very negative, almost bitchy vibe from her and it really frustrated me.
I think our plans are great and they fit whatever we have in mind but she was almost making faces most of the time, kind like: 'Really, thats what you are doing?'. Agghh. For example, we are planning to hire somebody to do the decorations, which is pretty normal for me, especially since we have a destination wedding and again she gave me that look and said, well my mom will do the decorating stuff for us....arrghh.
Also I told her that we have about 300 people that we have to invite, bc FH's family is huge and also the wedding will be in Turkey, where it is very traditionel to have bigger weddings. Actually our friends alone are already 100 people...and again she gave me this look and said well we have between 80 and 100 and I would never want more people there and I would refuse to invite more...i was like Hello you are an only child and they both have small families, so well that works best for her, but I never gave her attitude....
Sorry too long...
