One of my cousins, who i've always been very close to got engaged 2 days after me and my FH. When I asked her to be in my wedding party she said she couldn't because she couldn't afford it. At the same time, she still wanted me to be one of her BM's and I said OK. I figured by the time her wedding came along, i would have made a slight financial recovery from paying for my own wedding. (Little did I know we were going to have to pay for our dresses and shoes in full a year before her wedding) Her and her FH are VERY in debt from his law school loans. At the time she asked me to be in her bridal party, they were even tossing around the idea of getting married at the Knights of Columbus to save money. Since then, she's booked the Westbury manor, with a bunch of little extras and one of the most expensive photographers on long island. that being said... Yesterday, i find out that one of her FH's friends is getting married and she's in their wedding party! I'm dying to say something to her
chichila15
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Re: VENT - so annoyed, hurt
Posted by Laura1976
Tomorrow, I'm going to mention it to her sister who is also in my bridal party. It won't be a direct confrontation but I know it will get back to her.
I don't think that it is a good idea.... only because what if the bride doesn't respond to it... you might feel even more hurt than you do now, and it would have been 'let out', too... and I'm sure you know how gossip spreads. I think it's best to nip it in the bud with the bride herself, not the sister. JMO.
