venting - i'm depressed...
I wasn't going to vent since I've never really let loose on the board (well, not in about a year anyway), but I guess I just need cheering up...
THose of you who've been posting since around my wedding - December 2001, might remember that my husband's father passed away a few months after the wedding (we had pushed it up when he was diagnosed w/ cancer). So obviously it was not such a joyous first year of marriage. TO make matters worse, he lost his business, and after consulting for a while, that gig fell through, and he's been unemployed ever since (about a year now). He's been sooooo depressed all year - we've been completely anti-social for financial and personal reasons (since his dad died).
Anyway, a couple months ago it seemed like the end of this might be near - he had a possible in at a company in VA and a very successful interview. He was so excited - like a new man. VERY long story short, they've been stringing him along since then (in the meantime I've interviewed in VA assuming we'd be moving) and even got a job offer already. Well, as of today, it seems as if the deal in VA is off - they need to hire internally.
He's devestated again - this took so much out of him. Between his depression and our lack of $$, i can't take it!!![]()
We want to have a family and get out of NYC, and really can't do it financially. I just wish for once something would go right for us.
sorry to lay this on you guys.... but thanks for listening. always helps to vent![]()
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THose of you who've been posting since around my wedding - December 2001, might remember that my husband's father passed away a few months after the wedding (we had pushed it up when he was diagnosed w/ cancer). So obviously it was not such a joyous first year of marriage. TO make matters worse, he lost his business, and after consulting for a while, that gig fell through, and he's been unemployed ever since (about a year now). He's been sooooo depressed all year - we've been completely anti-social for financial and personal reasons (since his dad died).
Anyway, a couple months ago it seemed like the end of this might be near - he had a possible in at a company in VA and a very successful interview. He was so excited - like a new man. VERY long story short, they've been stringing him along since then (in the meantime I've interviewed in VA assuming we'd be moving) and even got a job offer already. Well, as of today, it seems as if the deal in VA is off - they need to hire internally.
He's devestated again - this took so much out of him. Between his depression and our lack of $$, i can't take it!!
sorry to lay this on you guys.... but thanks for listening. always helps to vent
