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jennbaby Posted:

Very depressed

I have worked on planning my wedding for 1 year & 8 months and here I sit, not able to work or do anything because of my back.
I have a 2nd hair trial Sunday and plans to see my florist this weekend also. How will I do these things
Ronnie&Theresa Posted:

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Take VIk's..

I can't they make me PUKE!
dubliner Posted:

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Jenn

Maybe Jennifer will come to yuor house? HAve you asked her?
Helene718 Posted:

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Take advantage of this time and rest so that you can heal. Don't worry. Everything is going to get done.
ddunne23 Posted:

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You'll do it with the help and support of the man you are planning this whole day for! (even though the day is really all about you!) Cheer up..it's all good!
Misty Posted:

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Oh Jenn....please don't get down about this.

The best thing you can do for yourself is rest right now so that you don't hurt yourself more. Call JN and see if she would be willing to come to the house, if not, make that the only thing you go out for this weekend. Take care of yourself...it's the most important thing right now. Everything else can and will get done.

You have people that can help you...use them!
Olgaki Posted:

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It will get done Jen. Don't worry just focus on getting better!! If you are healthy you'll feel better and then you need to not stress! It will just aggravate your back - just focus on your health!

Jess2 Posted:

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Jenn, are you taking painkillers? I hope you feel better soon! I have back problems & what I've done in the past is alternate hot & cold for 3 hours. It is supposed to 'flush out' the pain. So you do like 20 minutes of the heating pad and then take a 15 minute break, and then 15 minutes of cold (ice pack) and take 10 minute break and you do this cycle for three hours straight each day. Anyways, not sure if this is helpful, but feel better soon!
mv1003 Posted:

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Jenn- I have serious bad back problems!!!!
The last time I threw out my back, I couldn't even walk!!! I go to a chiropractor that does way more than just adjustments. I have walked into this mans office 4 times in the past 3 years walking in the form of a pretzel!!

Don't worry about anything else, but getting better. Everything else will get taken care of, and what ever is meant to be, is meant to be. Meaning, if JN won't come to your house, and you don't use her- so beit. Maybe you weren't meant to use her.
Pillows under your legs and between your legs when you're lying on your side. Take some asprin, but don't move too much. Heat works, but the cold will take the swelling out... and STRETCH.. as much as you think this won't help, you MUST stretch!!!! Even your neck, as all muscles are connected and will alleviate some pain.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. Sweetie, I know what it feels like and I am so sorry this is happening to you right now.
Feel better!
jennbaby Posted:

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Thanks, I will email Jenn from Fairtytale who has been awesome so far, I had a hair trial with her but want another for a different style

Yes I have vicodins
Sunny Posted:

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Feel better!

janatlantica Posted:

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You should rest with a heating pad or those herbal heat pillows! I hope you feel better Jenn!
swags1016 Posted:

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Jenn,

Try not to worry, you will get things done, but your first priority needs to be getting well, so that you can walk down the aisle.

Feel better soon!
2003wedding. Posted:

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i haven't been around for a few days--i missed it--jenn what happened to your back? --i hope you are feeling better--just rest-----and the idea of jennifer coming to you is a good one!
Marcela1654 Posted:

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Jenn: Please don't get depressed!!! Everything will work out and your wedding will be absolutely GORGEOUS!!! Try to call Jennifer and see if she'll come to your house. Can you reschedule the florist appointment? Just tell them the situation.
Oh and becareful with the Vicaden. They make me feel VERY dopey and unable to concentrate. I wouldn't take them if you're going to go out and do stuff.
cuteypie Posted:

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Feel better! Back problems ****. I know, I've got a herniated disc!

Cindy Posted:

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Feel better soon
Kathy116 Posted:

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The only way to really get yourself up and around soon is rest! Back problems require a lot of rest, and if you start to get around too soon, you can reinjure your back, and make it worse.

Relax, read, and use this time in a positive manner. I know it's frustrating, but in order to heal, you really need to rest.

Hope your feeling better soon!
allure Posted:

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I hope you feel better

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