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Very happy and very upset all at the same time...

Dawa Posted:

Very happy and very upset all at the same time...

So I received a call Friday that my wedding dress came in!! SO excited....I'm going Thursday to try it on and I can't wait! And today I went with my bridesmaids to go get their dresses and I was really excited until we learned what the prices were. When I first checked in with the store I could have sword they said if all my girls bought their dress there it would be a nice low price but today it was a whole different story, and they had some 'No Frills' deal that confused the hell out of us.....So we went through with buying the dresses because everyone was prepared to do so today, but now I feel horrible that they are paying a good amount more than what I told them. No one said anything to me, but I didn't expect them to complain. But now I feel like sending each of them some money with an apology. I feel like I'm a bad bride and that I didn't do my research and this whole thing has ruined what should have been a really happy exciting moment for me. God I hate money.....
What should I do? Should I get in touch with everyone and feel them out about the price and offer them money towards it? Is that weird and insulting in some way? It's not like I could really afford to just pass money around but I rather me be financially strapped because of my wedding than my girls.....
Alyssa79 Posted:

Re: Very happy and very upset all at the same time...

how much more are we talking about?

Dawa Posted:

Re: Very happy and very upset all at the same time...

it's about a $73 difference, and that's not including if they need any alterations. I just know that everyone is tight with money, and the last thing I wanted to be an add on to their burdens in life.

Alyssa79 Posted:

Re: Very happy and very upset all at the same time...

you know what, i'd let it go. possibly make up for it in their gifts? i don't mean spending $73 more on each girl either. maybe just splurge a little more.

please don't feel bad. we can't always control these things
asg450 Posted:

Re: Very happy and very upset all at the same time...


Posted by Alyssa79

you know what, i'd let it go. possibly make up for it in their gifts? i don't mean spending $73 more on each girl either. maybe just splurge a little more.

please don't feel bad. we can't always control these things



I agree.

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