VERY personal sex question...

I can't believe I'm going to ask this,
I'm really embarrassed, but here goes...

My DH and I have been together over 11.5 years. We have never used 'anything' except each other during sex. I've been reading a lot of the sex type posts here, and just thought that maybe it would be fun for us to get something. I mentioned to my DH and he got all excited.

I wanted to get something that I could use on/with him. Is there anything out there that men really like? Something that will pleasure him? He said that he'd buy something for me, and I buy something for him. We're both clueless, so I just thought I'd ask all the experienced women on here.

I've looked online, and all I can say is 'WOW'... so many intimidating, scary looking stuff!!!


I am really, really embarrassed now!

i think that really depends on how open your husband is....
there are MANY things out there

Nothing way out there. We're beginners! TMI but, definitely nothing anal!

I sent you an FM....

you can start out with the motion lotions that get hot when you rub or blow on them, but you might have a reaction to them.

You can start with a Pe**s ring or a small vibrating something or other....

Melissa, you're killing me. How about starting with something simple, like watching a 'movie' together or something? Or something couples can enjoy like kinky massage oil or something. There's nothing wrong with adding a little spice/dimension to your sex life. I'm sure the fact alone that you suggested something gave him a charge. You know how bad boys can be

go to themood.com, it's the website of my fave sex store...unfortunately it' in philly, but it's sucha great shop, relaly oriented toward couples and very classy. When FH and I were in college, we'd buy all kindsof new stuff all the time to try

Some mild stuff -

emotion lotion, warm when you rub, hot when you blow and edible and condom safe

body butter - really smooth yummy lotion type stuff

taste me spray...leave the room, spray it on a part of your body, and leave it up yo your partner to find where you sprayed it!

body paint - this can be really intimate and fun, but then you need a shower. Some say they're edible, but they just aren't/


Also, I think games can be really fun. We have this card game called sextasy extasy or something (I got it for like $6 at B&N clearnace, and you pick a card forme ach of four categories with little ideas to spice things up. REALLY fun!

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Posted by OSCARtheGROOM



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YEAH RIGHT!!!!

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Posted by ambersmom

Melissa, you're killing me. How about starting with something simple, like watching a 'movie' together or something? Or something couples can enjoy like kinky massage oil or something. There's nothing wrong with adding a little spice/dimension to your sex life. I'm sure the fact alone that you suggested something gave him a charge. You know how bad boys can be

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I think a movie is a great idea.. and great for beginners!!! Some of those toys.. let's just say you have to work up to some of those things.

This is something that will be beneficial for you both, it's called the Jelly Donut. They sell it on this website http://www.fantasiahomeparties.com/default.asp

I would say that at least 15 of my friends have this and love it, myself included. We all bought it at a home party and raved about it to each other! lol!

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Posted by don424

boosh take a note

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ha ha very funny, you take a note

Hmm I hope that jelly donut comes with a manual, cause I truly cannot tell which ends is up from the picture or description!~

I'm with you Kate. I'm not an old fashioned girl but I can't tell what goes where with that thing!

Don't be embarrased. ITS ALL GOOD.


Now... How exactly does that Jelly Donut thing work?

I'm w/ you guys....uhhhh kinda need a further explanation on that jelly donut

Alright I just studdied it. I think I might have gotten it. Not sure though.

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Posted by Karacg

OMG we just got a jelly donut in the mail yesterday and tried it out but....I'm not sure how it works either!! And believe me, we tried!!

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How does it come packaed? It looks intresting but... I live upstairs from my cousins I d be mortified it it came and they got the mail first.