I can't believe I'm going to ask this, I'm really embarrassed, but here goes...
My DH and I have been together over 11.5 years. We have never used 'anything' except each other during sex. I've been reading a lot of the sex type posts here, and just thought that maybe it would be fun for us to get something. I mentioned to my DH and he got all excited.
I wanted to get something that I could use on/with him. Is there anything out there that men really like? Something that will pleasure him? He said that he'd buy something for me, and I buy something for him. We're both clueless, so I just thought I'd ask all the experienced women on here.
I've looked online, and all I can say is 'WOW'... so many intimidating, scary looking stuff!!!
I am really, really embarrassed now!
nferrandi
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Posted by june262004
Don't be embarrased. ITS ALL GOOD.
Now... How exactly does that Jelly Donut thing work?
Here's how it goes... There's a double sided 'jelly' ring and it looks like a figure 8. It also comes with a bullet vibrator that you can control the speed. One side of the loop goes down DH/FH shaft (AKA pen!s) and the other side slides around the bullet. It's best used when the woman is on top and you can position the bullet in the right spot. It just ads to the stimulation for the man and the woman. This is probably TMI, but I don't have many 'O's when I'm on top, but I do much more frequently when we use the jelly donut.
june262004
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Posted by june262004
Don't be embarrased. ITS ALL GOOD.
Now... How exactly does that Jelly Donut thing work?
Here's how it goes... There's a double sided 'jelly' ring and it looks like a figure 8. It also comes with a bullet vibrator that you can control the speed. One side of the loop goes down DH/FH shaft (AKA pen!s) and the other side slides around the bullet. It's best used when the woman is on top and you can position the bullet in the right spot. It just ads to the stimulation for the man and the woman. This is probably TMI, but I don't have many 'O's when I'm on top, but I do much more frequently when we use the jelly donut.
Thats kind of what I was thinking. I might have to invest in this Thanks.
Melissa
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Thanks girls... My DH and I have used lotions, I just didn't consider it as outside stimulation. They don't do much for us though. We were just thinking of doing something 'different'. I can't believe it took us over 11.5 years to say it to one another. I mean I am a shy person, but I just thought, 'What the hell!'
Janice
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Melissa seriously role play!! set up a parlor, and use the oils. um and if you are toyless, do yourself a favor and get one, even for downtime.
Bunnymonkey
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ummm...I don't know how to say this without sounding pornographic ----->How about a cock ring?
Kate
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Posted by nferrandi
Posted by june262004
Don't be embarrased. ITS ALL GOOD.
Now... How exactly does that Jelly Donut thing work?
Here's how it goes... There's a double sided 'jelly' ring and it looks like a figure 8. It also comes with a bullet vibrator that you can control the speed. One side of the loop goes down DH/FH shaft (AKA pen!s) and the other side slides around the bullet. It's best used when the woman is on top and you can position the bullet in the right spot. It just ads to the stimulation for the man and the woman. This is probably TMI, but I don't have many 'O's when I'm on top, but I do much more frequently when we use the jelly donut.
ok Nicole one more question... Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!
nferrandi
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ok Nicole one more question... Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!
I do agree with that! A wireless remote would be an improvement. Then you could even use the bullet while food shopping. lol J/K (well kind of)
june262004
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Posted by Kate
ok Nicole one more question... Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!
I do agree with that! A wireless remote would be an improvement. Then you could even use the bullet while food shopping. lol J/K (well kind of)
MrsK-in-June05
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i think that really depends on how open your husband is.... there are MANY things out there
and how would you know about the many things out there? you are my liw idol...so pure and angelic!!
RedHead
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Posted by oct.2004bride
i think that really depends on how open your husband is.... there are MANY things out there
and how would you know about the many things out there? you are my liw idol...so pure and angelic!!
not in the bedroom
MrsK-in-June05
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Posted by MrsK-in-June05
Posted by oct.2004bride
i think that really depends on how open your husband is.... there are MANY things out there
and how would you know about the many things out there? you are my liw idol...so pure and angelic!!
not in the bedroom
*dials therapist*
RedHead
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Posted by oct.2004bride
Posted by MrsK-in-June05
Posted by oct.2004bride
i think that really depends on how open your husband is.... there are MANY things out there
and how would you know about the many things out there? you are my liw idol...so pure and angelic!!
not in the bedroom
*dials therapist*
Emma2-22
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if you are looking for a 'toy' that you can use on him or he can use on himself check out the Fleshlight
Butterflybride
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Posted by Emma2-22
if you are looking for a 'toy' that you can use on him or he can use on himself check out the Fleshlight
Interesting....I'd be a little afraid of DH using that too much when I'm not around. If we were to get a toy I'd rather it be something we'd both get satisfaction out of.
Imagin916
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Posted by Emma2-22
if you are looking for a 'toy' that you can use on him or he can use on himself check out the Fleshlight
If you go on this link and go to womens toys, check out 'Mr. Limpy'
Kate
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Posted by nferrandi
Posted by Kate
ok Nicole one more question... Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!
I do agree with that! A wireless remote would be an improvement. Then you could even use the bullet while food shopping. lol J/K (well kind of)
Kristin, I think next time you are at work you should imagine all the shoppers with bullets in their knickers... would make for an interesting shift!
june262004
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Posted by june262004
Posted by nferrandi
Posted by Kate
ok Nicole one more question... Is that a cord I see? They couldn't make it cordless? Even my damn ceiling fan has a remote these days!
I do agree with that! A wireless remote would be an improvement. Then you could even use the bullet while food shopping. lol J/K (well kind of)
Kristin, I think next time you are at work you should imagine all the shoppers with bullets in their knickers... would make for an interesting shift!
OMG now Im going to have BAD visions at work
june262004
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Posted by Emma2-22
if you are looking for a 'toy' that you can use on him or he can use on himself check out the Fleshlight
If you go on this link and go to womens toys, check out 'Mr. Limpy'
Adrianna
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I would recommend blindfolds. Its not outside stimulation but, when you loose one of your senses your other ones become stronger and it can be very exciting not knowing were you will be touched next and if you are doing the touching it fun to tease your spouse. As far as outside stimulation I would suggest a good vibrator for you. Whether he uses it on you or you use it on yourself while he watches, it will definitly turn him on maybe a card sex came that you guys play together to try new positions and different places in the home. Have fun!
marymoon
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I keep going to bridal shows and seeing these ads for 'Slumber parties' they bruing all of this stuff and show it to you and EXPLAIN things and explain how to use it. I'd love to do that, but my friends would be too shy, probably..I think it would be a good way to learn about a lot of new stuff
