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VERY personal sex question...

Original post by Melissa

I can't believe I'm going to ask this,
I'm really embarrassed, but here goes...

My DH and I have been together over 11.5 years. We have never used 'anything' except each other during sex. I've been reading a lot of the sex type posts here, and just thought that maybe it would be fun for us to get something. I mentioned to my DH and he got all excited.

I wanted to get something that I could use on/with him. Is there anything out there that men really like? Something that will pleasure him? He said that he'd buy something for me, and I buy something for him. We're both clueless, so I just thought I'd ask all the experienced women on here.

I've looked online, and all I can say is 'WOW'... so many intimidating, scary looking stuff!!!


I am really, really embarrassed now!
nferrandi Posted:

Re: VERY personal sex question...


Posted by marymoon

I keep going to bridal shows and seeing these ads for 'Slumber parties' they bruing all of this stuff and show it to you and EXPLAIN things and explain how to use it. I'd love to do that, but my friends would be too shy, probably..I think it would be a good way to learn about a lot of new stuff



I've been to quite a few of these parties, why do you think I'm such a jelly donut expert. lol!
But seriously, I know it seems like it would be embarrasing, but it's really not. It's a lot of fun and you would probably be surprised at how much your friends would like it. If you decide to have one I can give you the name of my friend who hosts them, she's awesome!

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