This is long so stay with me. My FH and best man went to ST maartin for the BC party. I knew nothing of this his friend never said a word to me about a week long getaway for the BC party. My FH's best man is married to a sneaky little witch.Who I and a lot of other people think she gets off on other men (husbands friends) thinking she is Mrs together and terrific. My FH tried to force me two years ago to start my Daycare with her. she was a legal secretary with two very badly behaved kids always crying to me about how she could not control them. Why would I want her to be my partner. I was and will always be a teacher. I have my degree and NYS certification. I've been a teacher for three years. Yet she was telling My FH to tell to me try this website or get this book or do this and do that. Sadly he was repeating this nonsense back to me. We almost broke up over this 2 years ago. I had to call her and tell her. Listen stay out of me and my man business. You are causing problems in my house. I don't want a business partner because I don't need one and can't afford to pay any one else right now anyway. I also told my FH he was wrong for listening to a woman other than his own on a personal house hold topic! I though the drama was done with this B****. I find out before he leaves Tuesday that she paid for this ticket to ST Martin on her credit card. What is that! As a woman why would you encourage that. Knowing that he would be gone for a week. What if there is stuff to be done for the wedding? Why not give a little something for our honeymoon! Am I crazy is this completely inappropriate or what?
Princess92406
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Posted by October Bliss
If my FH took off for a week for his BP without telling me that was what he up to, I would be tempted to kick his arse to the curb.
First, I would wonder why FH felt the need to lie or keep a secret of that magnitude.
Second, I would wonder where FH got the money from. We are paying for this ourselves, and if FH all of a sudden had money to go away for a week I would question where it came from or what wedding thing he was now not going to pay for because he was going to be OOT for a week.
and third, I would wonder what FH's relationship with this woman is/was that he gives her word any amount of credibility whatsoever.
As for the woman, if her only connection to my FH was through BM I would crush her like a bug. If it was more, then I would examine the situation very closely.
Well said..my sentiments EXACTLY...
stephanief
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Posted by Sunrise813
To be honest with you I am not sure why youare mad a this woman instead of your FH, why didn't he tell you that he was going away for a week??
As far as paying for his ticket, he is the guest of honor, doesn't the bridal party pay for the groom?? what I am trying to say is , yes the card is probably in her name but since she is married to your Best man, why don't you look at it as the Best man is paying for your FH's trip?? since her money is his money.
I agree 100%
Jennie0898
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Posted by Sunrise813
To be honest with you I am not sure why youare mad a this woman instead of your FH, why didn't he tell you that he was going away for a week??
As far as paying for his ticket, he is the guest of honor, doesn't the bridal party pay for the groom?? what I am trying to say is , yes the card is probably in her name but since she is married to your Best man, why don't you look at it as the Best man is paying for your FH's trip?? since her money is his money.
I agree with this post but I do understand where you're coming from. The bottom line is this chick rubs you the wrong way so the fact that she's involved in any way is annoying. I get that completely...
Try to not let that bother you, it's just not worth it. If anything I'm guessing she knows it pi$$ed you off and was hoping to get a rise out of you so try not to give her the satisfaction.
Now as for FH... I would be beyond angry. The fact that he NEVER mentioned that he was going away for a WEEK.... That's just rude and inconsiderate. I wouldn't care what it's for... BP, work whatever. How do you plan a trip, or allow people to plan a week long trip for you and not say anything to your SO?? I would definitely speak to him about that...
Good Luck and try not to sweat all this small stuff!
