Victims of DFZ ...

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Posted by carolinep24

Another old married bitter hag chiming in.

wanted to give you a [golf clap]

don't be a victim... they might have a cream that cures DFZ

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Posted by carolinep24

Another old married bitter hag chiming in.

wanted to give you a [golf clap]

don't be a victim... they might have a cream that cures DFZ

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by carolinep24

Another old married bitter hag chiming in.

wanted to give you a [golf clap]

don't be a victim... they might have a cream that cures DFZ

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hahahahhaa too funny...i was wondering when we would have some awesome comments from the NWs!

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Posted by carolinep24

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by carolinep24

Another old married bitter hag chiming in.

wanted to give you a [golf clap]

don't be a victim... they might have a cream that cures DFZ

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hahahahhaa too funny...i was wondering when we would have some awesome comments from the NWs!

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I feel I should offer you some advice... since I am such a wise wise newlywed who is leagues above you mere brides...

wanna talk ish? do it in FM.. much more fun that way.



i all seriousness, there will ALWAYS be drama... there will ALWAYS be cliques and sh*t talking.. might as well put on your big girl panties and realize that people will upset you b/c you are allowing them to upset you... that's what I tell my 8 year old.

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Posted by carolinep24

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by carolinep24

Another old married bitter hag chiming in.

wanted to give you a [golf clap]

don't be a victim... they might have a cream that cures DFZ

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hahahahhaa too funny...i was wondering when we would have some awesome comments from the NWs!

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I feel I should offer you some advice... since I am such a wise wise newlywed who is leagues above you mere brides...

wanna talk ish? do it in FM.. much more fun that way.



i all seriousness, there will ALWAYS be drama... there will ALWAYS be cliques and sh*t talking.. might as well put on your big girl panties and realize that people will upset you b/c you are allowing them to upset you... that's what I tell my 8 year old.

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Posted by carolinep24

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by carolinep24

Another old married bitter hag chiming in.

wanted to give you a [golf clap]

don't be a victim... they might have a cream that cures DFZ

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hahahahhaa too funny...i was wondering when we would have some awesome comments from the NWs!

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I feel I should offer you some advice... since I am such a wise wise newlywed who is leagues above you mere brides...

wanna talk ish? do it in FM.. much more fun that way.



thats great!!!!

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Posted by carolinep24

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by carolinep24

Another old married bitter hag chiming in.

wanted to give you a [golf clap]

don't be a victim... they might have a cream that cures DFZ

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hahahahhaa too funny...i was wondering when we would have some awesome comments from the NWs!

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I feel I should offer you some advice... since I am such a wise wise newlywed who is leagues above you mere brides...

wanna talk ish? do it in FM.. much more fun that way.



i all seriousness, there will ALWAYS be drama... there will ALWAYS be cliques and sh*t talking.. might as well put on your big girl panties and realize that people will upset you b/c you are allowing them to upset you... that's what I tell my 8 year old.

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Posted by redvelvet

wedding planning is very fun at the moment... btw r u and fh still considering postponing? i know u posted abt the dilema a while ago but idk if u posted abt the end result. hope all is well.

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Posted by Colette

Old married hag here: Erika you are gorgeous.
THat's all I want to say....

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B

I never considered myself a victim. But I guess technically I am. There were some pretty bad stuff written there about me. I actually read them this morning. Someone FM'd me the link and told me people were talking smack about me. I read them and honestly I don't care. I don't need an apology.I was in a sorority so this s h i t isnt anything new to me. I was queen b i t c h in college. Talking smack about people was normal. But that was college, and I obviously got over that. I have to say that I am shocked to see how many people realy hate me. I can understand if I did something to them. But they dont like me simply b.c of things I said. Oh well.
It's ok. I still like you smack talking ladies. I had a good laugh reading the stuff you guys wrote about me. Especially about how I looked in my wedding dress. now THAT was pretty mean. even I wouldnt have the balls to say that about someone. But its ok, Thanks for the advice, now I know that I def. have to lose weight. I dont mind criticism. However, some of you should also follow the same advice ;)


You know, when I received the FM, I was actually going to FM Mischesq and Mady to let them know that someone was spreading the word about their blog. I was even going to tell them that I thought it was cute that they kinda had a 'Virtual Sorority' stuff going on. But by the time I was about to send it, the damage had already been done, and someone had posted it on LIW.
And I am being truthful when I say that I was going to FM them about. Why? b.c the whole thing is stupid. and I was hoping that they would be able to delete it that way nobody else would really know what was said. A lot of the things said there were really messed up. Lucky for me I dont care. But I know there are many other brides who would have been (have been) affected by it. and I really wanted to prevent that.


I havent been on much today b.c I was busy going to the service for my friend who passed away. But I can see that there has been major drama going on all day. For all the other 'victims' ... don't be offended by the things they said. IN reality we dont know each other and who gives a crap what they say or think. They formed their own separate blog where they could feel free to say how they really felt . In theory, they were DFZ. They kept their blog DFZ b.c everyone agreed w. each other. hence no drama. IN turn they kept LIweddings DFZ as well. So really its only our faults for being nosy.


Anyway, hopefully we can all move on. Lets be the bigger person and not say anything else about it. Those girls dont care that your feelings were hurt, and honestly you shouldnt care what they have to say about you. Dont feel bad about yourselves or demand an apology. Its not worth it. They are not worth it. With that said, How's wedding planning????

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