W T F is wrong with my father???? UPDATE ON PAGE 2!
Lsorrent
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W T F is wrong with my father???? UPDATE ON PAGE 2!
So I just got an email from him requesting that I send his girlfriend's son an invitation with guest!
WHAT????? I have only met this son ONCE in my life! Why the EFF does he need to be at my wedding????????
Not to mention, I ALREADY HAVE MY INVITATIONS and my envelopes were done! So now I don't have a pre-made envelope for them.
This was my response:
I REALLY wish you would've asked me this before I had the invitations printed. This is why I asked you for a finalized list a few months ago. Now the envelope won't look like the rest.
What about her other son? How can we invite one and not the other?
I will put them on the B list. We already have over 250 people on the guest list. I am not putting them on the A list, because Mike and I have only met them once. If I get enough 'no' RSVP's, I will send them an invite.
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20mrsc10
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i think your response is very fair.. why didnt he think of them before?
latinaj
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oh boy... you're right to be angry! and he has a brother? so that would be +4 ppl (assuming his brother has a gf)
cateydee
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good for u!!
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Posted by Lsorrent
So I just got an email from him requesting that I send his girlfriend's son an invitation with guest!
WHAT????? I have only met this son ONCE in my life! Why the EFF does he need to be at my wedding????????
Not to mention, I ALREADY HAVE MY INVITATIONS and my envelopes were done! So now I don't have a pre-made envelope for them.
This was my response:
I REALLY wish you would've asked me this before I had the invitations printed. This is why I asked you for a finalized list a few months ago. Now the envelope won't look like the rest.
What about her other son? How can we invite one and not the other?
I will put them on the B list. We already have over 250 people on the guest list. I am not putting them on the A list, because Mike and I have only met them once. If I get enough 'no' RSVP's, I will send them an invite.
Soooome people!! I think you responded well though.
Becca2010
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Oh Dad... I like your response, very straight forward. He should get the point. Hopefully he doesn't argue!
SummerBride10
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Wow I'd def. be annoyed to. Keep them on the b list for now
soontobecruz
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WOW!
I think your response was perfect.
Did he write back yet?
kris_gets_hitched
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Good for you. Your response was perfect.
soonT0beMrsD
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good response
bluj786
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even tho he is ur dad, people just dont think sometimes. but i think your email back to him is perfect, and leave them on the b list for now
MrsC2010
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ugh so annoying fmil has been doing the same thing...like hello we asked for a FINAL list for a reason
your response was perfect!!
miamimerger
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that would have made me sooo angry.
jmgoncal
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Ugh... that's irritating. You had a perfect response though - it was calm and rational - much better than what my reaction would have been!
mariedsgn
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uuuugggggggg!!!! I would be annoyed too!
I think your response is perfect!
CloudNine
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i think your response is perfect! and if it makes you feel better, my dad did the same thing to me. he wanted me to invite his gf's family..umm NO
flibbertigibbet
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this is just me, but i wouldn't invite them.
esp if hes asking you to invite one WITH guest and not the other. how old are these sons of hers?
it'd be different if they were married but you said gf so...
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your response is pitch-perfect and a great template for me, as I am expecting this same situation!
I'm wondering if he knew they weren't invited (b/c he OK'ed the final guest list) and then his gf made a big fuss? Is she like that?
Jenna_and_John
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I think you responded well, that is SO not cool of him
brooklynbrideliboy
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IT PROBABLY IS YOUR DAD'S GF NOT HIM WHO HAS THE ISSUE...HOW ANNOYING...I FEEL BAD FOR YOU GOOD RESPONSE THOUGH B-LIST THE KID! LOL
