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We have to postpone the wedding.

Original post by taraalissa

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You never think it could happen to you, it seems like it only happens to other people, or on tv.

Two weeks ago FH's father was checking the vent on the roof at his job. It seems as if he had a stroke and fell of the building. He broke two of his vertebre and was hemoraging from the brain. His is in a trauma ICU unit and they have him under heavy sedation. We don't know what effects the stroke will have, if there is brain damage or if he will even be able to walk. At first we thought he may be able to attend in a wheel chair, but that was before we understood the severity of the situation. Since his parents live in Florida, his mom wouldn't even be able to come to the wedding because she couldn't leave his dad in a hospital all alone to come to New York.

FH says there is nothing to celebrate and he can't even think of having this wedding with out his parents being present. After 1 year of planning, we are postponing our wedding less than a month before the day.

I am heart-broken.

ILT1221 Thread views: 3,072

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Tara,

I too am so deeply saddened for you. I know we hardly know each other...but we are all here for you!!! We are all praying for you and your FH's family during this time.

God is faithful and although it may not seem clear to you right now it will all truly work out. Please allow me to share some encouragement...

Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord, plans not to harm you but to give you a hope and a future.

It will all work out!!

Love, Irene

M&M2004 Thread views: 3,072

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your FH.

Claud2001 Thread views: 3,072

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Tara, jenny11.9 and irenie have said it best...I will keep you, your FH and your families in my prayers. to you!

NovemberSue Thread views: 3,072

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We are all very sorry to hear about your FH's father. Our thoughts and prayers go out to both of you and your families.

7-11 Thread views: 3,072

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tara,
im so sorry. my thoughts are with you.

ssdare Thread views: 3,072

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So sorry to hear about this. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong, things will work out.

lilgrape Thread views: 3,072

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I'm so sorry, your family will be in our prayers.

cw0904 Thread views: 3,072

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So sorry to hear about your situation Tara. You and your FH are in my thoughts

Meg9-20-02 Thread views: 3,072

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I'm so sorry to hear about this Tara -
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family -

ss2002 Thread views: 3,072

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Tara, I don't have anything to add to what the other ladies have already said so well. Just wanted to let you know that you, FH and your families are all in my thoughts and in my prayers.

Please don't hesitate to count on us for any support you may need. Also, please keep us posted on FFIL's condition.

bearsbabe_113 Thread views: 3,072

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Tara, I'm sorry to hear about your FFIL and that you had to postpone your wedding. I hope everything turns out ok and all our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

jlf41 Thread views: 3,072

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Thinking of you and sending you strength.

Sasha96 Thread views: 3,072

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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I wish your families all the best and I will keep your FFIL in my thoughts and prayers.

jennbaby Thread views: 3,072

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taraalissa tammyill posted for me. i am sooo sooo sorry

JennRenee Thread views: 3,072

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I am so very sad for you and your FH. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. to you both.

natasha Thread views: 3,072

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I am so sorry. Just remember that you have a wonderful group of ladies here to support you.

Karen62794 Thread views: 3,072

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I am so sorry Tara. My prayers are with you and your family.

lilmrs Thread views: 3,072

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My thoughts are with you and your family in this time of need. I know it is hard to think about postponing your wedding since so much time and energy went into it but family always comes first no matter what (I am learning this now)I wish you FFIL a speedy and healthy recovery.

DianaL Thread views: 3,072

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I am so sorry to hear about your FFIL and your postponement. Those who said this event will bring you closer are so right. Be there for your FH, and for his family. Sending prayers your way.

RichsBride Thread views: 3,072

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Tara,
I'm so sorry. I'll say a prayer for your family tonight. Keep us posted on how you are doing, and if you need anything. I can't even imagine how you must be feeling...........but I hope your FFIL is well soon & you can have your big day.