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We have to postpone the wedding.

Original post by taraalissa

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You never think it could happen to you, it seems like it only happens to other people, or on tv.

Two weeks ago FH's father was checking the vent on the roof at his job. It seems as if he had a stroke and fell of the building. He broke two of his vertebre and was hemoraging from the brain. His is in a trauma ICU unit and they have him under heavy sedation. We don't know what effects the stroke will have, if there is brain damage or if he will even be able to walk. At first we thought he may be able to attend in a wheel chair, but that was before we understood the severity of the situation. Since his parents live in Florida, his mom wouldn't even be able to come to the wedding because she couldn't leave his dad in a hospital all alone to come to New York.

FH says there is nothing to celebrate and he can't even think of having this wedding with out his parents being present. After 1 year of planning, we are postponing our wedding less than a month before the day.

I am heart-broken.

Tammy5-03 Thread views: 3,072

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I am sorry for everything you are going through. My father had a stroke three weeks ago and I know how difficult this time must be for you and your family. I know this postponement must also be very hard for you after getting so close and all your hard work. I hope things get better soon. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

brooke Thread views: 3,072

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Oh Tara.. that is terrible news. What more can anyone say that hasnt already been said? Love will prevail.

christy Thread views: 3,072

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Tara,
I am so sorry to hear your news. I am sending my prayers out to your FH's family. I know this must be so hard. But you will have your wedding when the time is right for your FH. Think positive, and hope for the best. -Christy

JodiBabe Thread views: 3,072

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Tara,

I am so sorry to hear that. My thoughts & prayers are with you, FH & his family! Keep us posted.

Jodi

Sassy Thread views: 3,072

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Tara, I am sorry for everything you're going through, and that you have to postpone the wedding. My prayers are out to you all. I will say a special prayer tonight for you, and keep you in my thoughts. Keep your head up and have faith, it helps more than we know.

Liz

Betty Thread views: 3,072

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I'm so sorry to hear of this terrible accident. Hang in there and be strong. My prayers are with your family

Wendy Thread views: 3,072

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Tara, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your fiance and family.

tarakinspa Thread views: 3,072

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I am praying for you and your family.

Bluebaby08 Thread views: 3,072

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Sorry to hear the news. I will pray for you and your family. Best wishes for a brighter tomorrow.

Jen2704 Thread views: 3,072

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Tara,

I am sorry that this has happened. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jen

112903 Thread views: 3,072

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I am so sorry to hear what happened. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Even though we really don't know each other if there is anything I can do please let me know. Karalynne

Curley999 Thread views: 3,072

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My prayers are also with you and your family.
Im so sorry for all that you are going though.......

taraalissa Thread views: 3,072

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Thank you all so much for your kind words and your good wishes. I will keep you posted. I hope to have some good news soon to report to you girls. I want you all to know how much your support and sincere concern mean to me. What a wonderful group of people you are. You all have very lucky fiances.

To address the question a few of you asked, so far all of my vendors have been great. I was expecting some to 'penalize' us because they are losing money for having booked us that day. So far, none of them have. You should all know that Chateau Briand, Imagine Studios and Wild Rose are first rate vendors who have been very cooperative and supportive. I haven't yet spoked to Burton's, OWG, Wedding Wings, or Joey Jam, but I will keep you all posted on how these vendors are responding to this difficult issue.

Paiz Thread views: 3,072

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OMG Tara! I am so sorry! I can't believe these things keep happening. A co-worker of mine's friend's daughter had an anuyerism and is in the hospital as well, as well as another co-workers who's nephew passed away with a major brain hemmoraghe.

I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything you know we are all here for you.