We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Original post by Thats-What-She-Said

Dec 17, 2010 08:25 AM

Obviously, I am alone in my opinion here.

evita2781 Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:09 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by amandamichael

im completely enjoying being wrapped up in my wedding and im sad that i dont know what ill plan when its over

this! i'll be SO bored out of my mind i'm not going to know what to do with myself!!

atitus724 Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:12 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by evita2781

Posted by amandamichael

im completely enjoying being wrapped up in my wedding and im sad that i dont know what ill plan when its over

this! i'll be SO bored out of my mind i'm not going to know what to do with myself!!

omg ita. life will be boring after the wedding!

MrsVMW Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:13 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by evita2781

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by evita2781

Posted by BlushandBashful

Mine's a national holiday.

you're getting married the day after me!!

It's a full weekend of national holiday's!! Aren't we so lucky?!!!??!?!

best weekend holiday ever!!!!

Were all getting married the same weekend so if it wasn't a holiday before it should be now!

amandamichael Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:13 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by evita2781

Posted by amandamichael

im completely enjoying being wrapped up in my wedding and im sad that i dont know what ill plan when its over

this! i'll be SO bored out of my mind i'm not going to know what to do with myself!!

im glad my mommas getting married the end of 2011 haha ill have more time to plan even if its not my own shes kind of given it to me to baby

we can plan it as a community when our weddings are over haha shes prob nov or dec of 11- well know this weekend :)

FutureJOC Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:14 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by BlushandBashful

Mine's a national holiday.

AngnShaun Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:15 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by amandamichael

so dont come on the website if you think your too wrapped up in it? idk im just saying--- if you dont like what your doing then dont come on?

my wedding should be a national holiday, damn its costing enough haha

and im sure everyone else feels the same way- its a bigggggggggggggg dayy in everyones lives

Exactly this... and besides, in my experience 75% of the conversation that takes place on this board is not wedding related...

adelz Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:16 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

I enjoy being wrapped up in the wedding and treating it like a national holidays And when I have other things to do, I don't come on here, I get them done. Simple as that.

evita2781 Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:16 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by amandamichael

Posted by evita2781

Posted by amandamichael

im completely enjoying being wrapped up in my wedding and im sad that i dont know what ill plan when its over

this! i'll be SO bored out of my mind i'm not going to know what to do with myself!!

im glad my mommas getting married the end of 2011 haha ill have more time to plan even if its not my own shes kind of given it to me to baby

we can plan it as a community when our weddings are over haha shes prob nov or dec of 11- well know this weekend :)

oh that's so nice! planning a wedding, even if it's not yours if fun regardless i'm waiting for my sisters' BFs to propose to them!

leighlo1226 Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:16 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by BlushandBashful

Mine's a national holiday.

I LOVE YOU!!!!

futurestevens Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:18 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by Stardutchess

Obviously, I am alone in my opinion here.

i'd say.

amandamichael Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:18 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by Stardutchess

Obviously, I am alone in my opinion here.

well, yea did you really expect any of us to say- your right we should get over ourselves our weddings arent a big deal at all?

kimmaymb20 Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:20 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by futurestevens

Posted by Stardutchess

Obviously, I am alone in my opinion here.

i'd say.

yup

FutureMRS.Benn Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:20 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by amandamichael

Posted by Stardutchess

Obviously, I am alone in my opinion here.

well, yea did you really expect any of us to say- your right we should get over ourselves our weddings arent a big deal at all?

WHAT DID I MISS????! WOW!!!

FutureJOC Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:20 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by AngnShaun

Exactly this... and besides, in my experience 75% of the conversation that takes place on this board is not wedding related...

that's what I'm saying! I feel like half the time we aren't even talking about WR stuff on the board... we talk mostly about sex, who we'd like to Screw Marry Kill, and food

amandamichael Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:24 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by FutureJOC

Posted by AngnShaun

Exactly this... and besides, in my experience 75% of the conversation that takes place on this board is not wedding related...

that's what I'm saying! I feel like half the time we aren't even talking about WR stuff on the board... we talk mostly about sex, who we'd like to Screw Marry Kill, and food

haha i love you!

amandamichael Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:24 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Posted by amandamichael

Posted by Stardutchess

Obviously, I am alone in my opinion here.

well, yea did you really expect any of us to say- your right we should get over ourselves our weddings arent a big deal at all?

WHAT DID I MISS????! WOW!!!

that pink weddings are automatically national holidays- that we should get over ourselves because our weddings arent national holidays and that were too wrapped up in our weddinsg

uhhh duh? arent we supposed to be?

atitus724 Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:29 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by Stardutchess

Obviously, I am alone in my opinion here.

why would u even post this on a wedding website...??

AngnShaun Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:31 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by amandamichael

Posted by FutureJOC

Posted by AngnShaun

Exactly this... and besides, in my experience 75% of the conversation that takes place on this board is not wedding related...

that's what I'm saying! I feel like half the time we aren't even talking about WR stuff on the board... we talk mostly about sex, who we'd like to Screw Marry Kill, and food

haha i love you!

i didnt specifically mean the 11 board lol but the entire board...

FutureMRS.Benn Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:31 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by amandamichael

Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Posted by amandamichael

Posted by Stardutchess

Obviously, I am alone in my opinion here.

well, yea did you really expect any of us to say- your right we should get over ourselves our weddings arent a big deal at all?

WHAT DID I MISS????! WOW!!!

that pink weddings are automatically national holidays- that we should get over ourselves because our weddings arent national holidays and that were too wrapped up in our weddinsg

uhhh duh? arent we supposed to be?

WOW!! My pink wedding is def a national holiday and since its happening during St. Patty's Day weekend - I think most would agree!!

I <3 my pink girls!!!!!!!

smilesjc81 Posted: Dec 17, 2010 09:46 AM

Re: We need to get over ourselves!!!!

Posted by Stardutchess

I am not referring to anyone specifically. I think this site can be super helpful when asking for advice or trying to get opinions, but I just feel like it also makes it incredibly easy to get all wrapped up in your own wedding. I mean there have been days when I spent the ENTIRE day on here and got nothing accomplished. I just think that sometimes things need to be put into perspective.

I agree to a point, I can understand how you feel.
There are days when even thinking about my wedding is overwhelming and I'm spinning my wheels just stressing, then I remember that it's one day, and that a marriage is about more then a party, it's life long commitment.

If the flowers dont come out right, or my makeup is slightly off, the world will not end.

that being said, when I feel like that; I refrain from being on LIW.
I give myself a few days to get away from thinking about weddings, I don't come on this site and pout to excited brides.

I'm not at all upset, that you feel we should get over ourselves.
Your feelings are valid because, well that's how you feel, but to expect others to share your feelings is just plain silly...and to post about it without expecting backlash or just being plain ignored... again silly

Give yourself a break, take some time, figure out where maybe your getting to 'wrapped up' in wedding stuff. Get focused on whats important in your own life. then rejoin us.
WE ARE EXCITED FOR YOU TO BE GETTING MARRIED, just as we are excited to be getting married

when your ready to get silly, and gush over your checks, your dress, your shoes, we are here for you