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Wedding After Party?

StaceYums81 Posted:

Wedding After Party?

Is everyone having an afterparty?
I'm thinking if I'm paying all this money for the wedding already why should I have an afterparty? We are not planning to stay in a hotel or anything?

Anyone not having an afterparty?
kimmaymb20 Posted:

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We might since we are going to stay in a hotel after the wedding and since we have alot of OOT guest that are going to be there but also depends on how much partying someone wants to do after a night wedding.

LaurenJosh Posted:

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Well, we talked about since our wedding ends at 5:00 but not sure. If anything we may just have close friends and family go over to my mom's for a little. Nothing crazy though.

T E R I Posted:

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We plan on having an after party at the hotel right next door to the RH, this way my friends don't have to drive home drunk and we can continue to party

teachcrowley Posted:

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We are having one at the hotel... they provide a shuttle over there and they have a lounge and stuff...

I also have a lot of people that I don't want drinking and driving. They will end up leaving their car at the RH and getting in the shuttle. My BM already said that would be fine (Super nice)!

I also want to have more of a party that I can party at... with music I like (def not what everyone else likes), etc....
grrulz Posted:

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i am not really looking to have one but my dad wants to throw one the day after because it will be a saturday but seriously we are all in the family putting enough money to this wedding!!!

DWKSwed Posted:

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Ours is ending late but we are gonna shuttle whoever wants to go to a hotel nearby and hopefully take over the bar/lounge/lobby area and just continue the festivities! With my group, they will still have energy, haha.

Ray8183 Posted:

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I want the after party to be at a club when music is being played beside the bar. My family have been known to leave a wedding at midnight and go clubbing. So since FMIL, FH and I are the only one who live in LI, I want a place like a lounge or bar with dancing.

StaceYums81 Posted:

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Would it be stupid not to have an afterparty?

Ray8183 Posted:

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Posted by StaceYums81

Would it be stupid not to have an afterparty?

No, many brides doesn't have one. I'M doing it because mine ends at 5 pm We like to party. You should not feel bad in any way of not having one. You can party with your DH. That is all the matters.
mzmahagony Posted:

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No, I'm not planing on having one because my wedding is 8pm-1:30am...I love partying but I think I will be too tired to after my long day plus I know I'm going to want to be with my 'husband' and he is not much of a party person. If it were up to just me I would have considered it though.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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im not planning an afterparty. im sure we will hang out at the hotel bar after the wedding but ppl are on their own as far as buying drinks...i think its unnecessary to pay for an after party after spending so much on the wedding!

lori7570 Posted:

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Whatever hotel we pick for the OOT guests we will also stay in. We'll all hang out at the bar but it will be a cash bar...they'll have 5 hours of open bar at the wedding!!!

My sister did this after her wedding and since the bar would have been closed by the time the wedding ended she had to pay $200 to keep it open with a bartender...
RedsBride Posted:

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we aren't having one. dont know about the rest of my family lol. they might go out and party but i want it to just be me and fh

Alexandra17 Posted:

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our wedding is at a hotel so whatever time they want to stay up until is fine by me..we already said we are not planning it for them

StaceYums81 Posted:

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I was not planning on staying in a hotel. Should I be?

Alexandra17 Posted:

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I think a lot of people just do because they pick one close to the RH due to driving people around and all..

SummerBride10 Posted:

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We're having an afternoon wedding so we def. want an after party. We're blocking rooms at a hotel that has a bar...so thats where the party will be. We'll prob. just get a hero or something.

FallBride2010 Posted:

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Posted by StaceYums81

I was not planning on staying in a hotel. Should I be?



I think it's nice to have a hotel after the wedding...it would just seem weird to me to go back to our house and not have all the pamepring of a hotel on the day of my wedding. JMO
SummerGroom10 Posted:

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Posted by SummerBride10

We're having an afternoon wedding so we def. want an after party. We're blocking rooms at a hotel that has a bar...so thats where the party will be. We'll prob. just get a hero or something.



Yeah shes right... so if any of you girls know people that dress up in HERO costumes for a party can you FM please???? Oh oh... a food hero... gotta be more specific...

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