Oh my gosh i am so soory that you have to deal with this!!
LeeLee111
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There are no words for what you are going through, I'm sorry this happened to you but your friends are right this will be a blessing in the end.,
mishjohn
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omg, so sorry to hear this. my sister is going through tthe same thing, except she was married for 4 yrs, with a 6 month old. guys suck and are very selfish!! your friends are right, it is a blessing and you are young, move on and get a better man!!! you deserve it, and just think of yourself thru all of this!! you are number 1!!!
Kerin2804
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Oh I am so sorry that happened.
hunnybunnyxoxo
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so sorry to hear!
Princess Cut Bride
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I'm sorry you are going through this! I wish you all the best and know you will find someone who truly deserves you!
Nechama1
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Ladies, thank you so much for your support. I wish I would have had the courage to post sooner, but I guess I was still in denial.
It is sinking in, I am telling everyone. But at the same time, my mind doesn't register that I am single. I got hit on today...sitting studying for my exam at Starbucks... I felt like saying 'Jerk! Don't you see my engagement ring' I forgot for a minute. I am not wearing the ring. I am not engaged. There was nothing wrong with him striking up a conversation. But I felt so guilty... It is so strange. I don't know why I feel like I need to faithful to him, still.
Anyhow, it is so helpful to read all your encouraging words. You are all such caring and loving women, your FH's are so lucky to have you!
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Posted by Nechama1
your FH's are so lucky to have you!
And any man would be lucky to have YOU!
MrsJ08
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WOW!!!
You are still in shock and these feelings are still brand new. Time will allow you to heel, and you need to be strong, you need to constantly think of what he did to you. I swear we should all kick his A$$ !!! It is a blessing that this happened before you got married...you will find that special someone who will treat you like a queen. I am sure he is regreting what he did,, whatever you do please dont get back with him, as much as you might want to becuase you were so comfortable with him, he is the one who did this and ruined something so special, let him suffer not you. You are soooo gorgous you have nothing to worry about ... see you already got hit on!
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you are too nice!!!! i can't believe you talked to that girl!!! she knew what she was doing and has no right to even try to talk to you!!! I can't believe this happened to you and i am sorry but you will find a better guy you'll see :) things happen for a reason
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Posted by grrulz
you are too nice!!!! i can't believe you talked to that girl!!! she knew what she was doing and has no right to even try to talk to you!!! I can't believe this happened to you and i am sorry but you will find a better guy you'll see :) things happen for a reason
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any reason you are bumping something from 4 months ago?
wifetobe
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you are too nice!!!! i can't believe you talked to that girl!!! she knew what she was doing and has no right to even try to talk to you!!! I can't believe this happened to you and i am sorry but you will find a better guy you'll see :) things happen for a reason
G
This is an old post from April...Warning!
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you are too nice!!!! i can't believe you talked to that girl!!! she knew what she was doing and has no right to even try to talk to you!!! I can't believe this happened to you and i am sorry but you will find a better guy you'll see :) things happen for a reason
G
This is an old post from April...Warning!
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wow! Im so sorry! I can't even imagine going through that! But please stay strong and you will get through this. Your still young and have so much ahead of you.
ETA: Just saw the date on this- didn't realize it was an old post...
wifetobe
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well she's an 2010 bride so she may be new and not realize that she did that.
GinaZ
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well she's an 2010 bride so she may be new and not realize that she did that.
ya I was just thinking the same thing. Probably an honest mistake and didn't do any real harm.
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well she's an 2010 bride so she may be new and not realize that she did that.
ya I was just thinking the same thing. Probably an honest mistake and didn't do any real harm.
My bad!!!
wifetobe
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well she's an 2010 bride so she may be new and not realize that she did that.
ya I was just thinking the same thing. Probably an honest mistake and didn't do any real harm.
Lets beat her up.
No... ok fine.. my day is boring
I'll watch..you take the first swing.. I'll jump in if you need a hand
KimberlyScott
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First let me say how sorry I'am for what's he's put you through. No one deserves that. I think you should reconsider forgiving him. If he's done it to you one, he will do it to you again. You are too good for him. Find the strength and courage to move on with your life and do what YOU want to do. You will find someone who deserves you.
I was in the same situation years ago and I never thought that I would find a man that I could trust again but, I did.
Good luck and keep us updated on how your doing.
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im reading this like hmmmm this sounds oddly familiar....then see the date from APRIL, its very familiar.
