Wedding Nightmares - AM I ALONE?

SusieQ Posted: Oct 26, 2001 01:15 PM

Wedding Nightmares - AM I ALONE?

Ok, I feel totally mental. I must've woke up like 50 times last night with the nightmares I was having about my wedding and it's like 9 months away! One where I found out I was pregnant and would be 9 months pregnant walking down the aisle, another where the videographers had flourescent yellow and green video cameras and stood right in front of the alter doing comedy acts, another with a DJ that played nothing but a spanish songs on a worn out tape, another that i forgot my dress and all of my bridesmaids showed up an hour late with my dress which hadn't been altered and wouldn't stay up on me, another where the hair/makeup person refused to do my hair and makeup and i wound up having to go down the aisle in sweatpants, a sweatshirt, no makeup and messy hair, another where they forced our party to go into a small discusting room with beer cans and trash all over the floor and no music, they go on forever. and they were one right after another! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME??? Is anyone else having nightmares like this?

Cira Posted: Oct 26, 2001 01:25 PM

I did when I first started planning ...

and it was constantly on my mind. Now that I've booked all the really important stuff and I'm focusing on school and work - I hardly have them.

It is just that you are thinking about the wedding and concentrationg to much on what will go wrong without even realizing it - atleast that was it with me. Are you in the early planning stages?

The dreams will pass - just try not to stress so much on what can go wrong. It's really unbelieveable how our psyche works - all our worries and anticipation is built up in our subconscious.

Take a hot bubble bath and just to relax. And yes you are normal!

LisaT Posted: Oct 26, 2001 01:26 PM

I've had a couple...

and even my mom had some nightmares about my wedding.
A good friend of mine had a nightmare about her wedding dress being all wrong (she's getting married before me) and when she went to her first fitting, it was all wrong (but fixed now).

JennyB Posted: Oct 26, 2001 01:53 PM

Wedding Nightmares - AM I ALONE?

Mine is a week away...and I had a, AWEFUL one last night that cat scatched up my face before the ceremony....Right now I am a nervous wreck!

katny2426 Posted: Oct 26, 2001 02:25 PM

WOW..... Jenny B.

You must be so exciting and anxious. All this planning and its almost finally here.

Don't worry... everything will be great.

July4Bride Posted: Oct 26, 2001 02:48 PM

Wedding Nightmares - AM I ALONE?

I had a dream that my dress was wrinkled. The Westbury Manor had tons of brides walking around. The photographer was late. My FH was not paying any attention. It was really bad and I'm getting married in another 8 months.