FH has a sister who is in desperate need of rehab, at the very least. She is truly a BAD person. She is a danger to herself and to others & I seriously wish she would just move to Alaska & get eaten by a polar bear.
WHY you ask? B/c my reception hall called me last night in a panic asking what was going on. I said “um, what do you mean?” Well. My FSIL called the caterer & said “Bride is too upset to call you and tell you herself but the wedding is OFF. You can cancel it.”
She also called the sold out hotel for my guests posing as me & said cancel all the rooms, the wedding is off. She called my bridal salon and did the same for my dress & my BM dresses. I have been on the phone all day calling every vendor to see who else she got to. My father called a friend who owns a club & we have now hired security for my wedding. So much for my classy Hamptons wedding. This crazy b!tch is ruining everything!!!
She is doing all this to get back at us. FH had her arrested last week. Long story. No one was seriously hurt by her actions but it was bad enough that the police filed seven charges against her. I hope she goes to jail. I really do. She belongs there.
She is seriously troubled. The whole family has cut her off and wants nothing to do with her & she is lashing out. How DARE she try to cancel my wedding!!!!
Ok, I just needed to get that off my chest.
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UPDATE 3 - she also called the bridal shop & tried to cancel all the dresses. She said she was me. Luckily, the owner knows my voice & called her out on it! I had given her a heads up...
bettybcafe
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.................Holy $hit..what a crazy A$$ B itch!!! Thats all I have to say about that......Im glad that you had everything resolved...and I do hope she gets locked up....
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I am so grateful that you are all on the same page as me. I want her to fall off a cruise ship. Seriously...As for the restraining order, its porbably coming soon. The police already issued a 'no contact' order. She is not allowed to call us or contact us in any way.
For those who asked in FMs why we had her arrested- I'll try to make a long story short: FH had a big fight with FSIL a few months ago b/c basically she is a drug addict. He has been supporting her financially for a VERY long time. So he cut her off & told her to clean up her act. So she now hates him. We kicked her out of the BP and FH has banned her from t he wedding.
Fast forward to this weekend: We were parked in front of FH's family's restuarant. I was sitting in the passenger side of my car breastfeeding our 2 week old baby. FSIL pulled into the parking lot & decided to pull up to our car, SPIT on us & then gunned the gas & rammed our car. Intentionally. With my baby in the car. Luckily, no one was seriously hurt but she jolted the car and did $2000+ worth of damage. As you could imagine, we had her arrested & we want her in jail. She's a class act.
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OMG...I am soooo sorry that you are dealing with this....and to think that I thought my SIL was the devil.....yours tops that....
I really hope that she doesnt do anything else to you guys.....GOOD LUCK.
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That is so crazy!!! Biotch has serious issues. Good Plan with the security.
The password idea sounds good - when i booked all of my vendors I included in our contracts that I alone can make decisions and if anyone else calls about our wedding they should be told to talk to me. FH's mom is out of control so that's what worked for me.
Good Luck with the rest of your planning!
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wooooooooooooooooow She has got some crazy a$$ issues going on!!! Im sorry that you are dealing with this-especially all that going on with the baby in the car!!! I would have seriously had to get out and beat the crap out of her.
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Oh Caroline that is horrible!! I cannot believe she did that to you and your baby, and then to try to ruin your wedding? That's terrible!!
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omg that is horrible............Good luck with the arrangements and everything.
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HOLY CRAP!
I don't even know what to say....JESUS CHRIST!!!! She needs to go to JAIL!!! I am sooo sorry....that's FACKING INSANE!!!!!
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omg!! that is awful!!! who does that?? thank God your baby and everyone is ok!! God Forbid!!
OMG. I am so so so so sorry that your fsil is such a mentally unstable nutjob....she needs to be locked up, and the key should be destroyed. I'm so glad that you and your baby are ok though.
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OMG. I can't even believe what I am reading. What a crazy b!tch!. Glad no one was hurt.
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Posted by carolinebr
I am so grateful that you are all on the same page as me. I want her to fall off a cruise ship. Seriously...As for the restraining order, its porbably coming soon. The police already issued a 'no contact' order. She is not allowed to call us or contact us in any way.
For those who asked in FMs why we had her arrested- I'll try to make a long story short: FH had a big fight with FSIL a few months ago b/c basically she is a drug addict. He has been supporting her financially for a VERY long time. So he cut her off & told her to clean up her act. So she now hates him. We kicked her out of the BP and FH has banned her from t he wedding.
Fast forward to this weekend: We were parked in front of FH's family's restuarant. I was sitting in the passenger side of my car breastfeeding our 2 week old baby. FSIL pulled into the parking lot & decided to pull up to our car, SPIT on us & then gunned the gas & rammed our car. Intentionally. With my baby in the car. Luckily, no one was seriously hurt but she jolted the car and did $2000+ worth of damage. As you could imagine, we had her arrested & we want her in jail. She's a class act.
OKAY WORSE THAN MY PHONE TAP RESPONSE I WOULD KICK HER A@# OMG SHE IS CRAZY WATCH THAT @#$#% YOUR BABY WAS IN THE CAR GOD HELP ME I WOULD HAVE @#$#%# #%#$#% ##%#$@@ AND THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN NO GETTING ME OFF OF HER
I AM GLAD YOUR BABY AND YOU WERENT HURT. SERIOUSLY YOU HAVE TO WATCH PEOPLE LIKE THAT SINCE SHEALREADY ISNT THINKING STRAIGHT
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That's crazy why did the police let her go so quick. They should have kept her for a few months.
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Woah!!! We are really sorry to hear about this. Your FSIL really has a major problem. Jail is definetly where she belongs.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the both of you and your family. We know that you will have a beautiful wedding. Best Wishes to you, fh, and baby.
Here are a ton of hugs.
dancer and chef
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OMG! that lady is psycho!!! please be careful she sounds like shes going to flip.. or should i say to late thats already happend!
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She is psycho. She needs serious help. Thank God no one was hurt.
What is the matter with her?????? You have every right to be fuming and to be honest, if someone-I don't care who, intentionally slammed into my car when they knew the baby was in there-I would KILL-no I am not kidding-KILL them!!!!!!!
You have much more restraint then I would have. Hang in there and if you need anything don't hesitate to ask!
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that is nuts, I hope everything turns out ok
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I am so glad that you and the baby are ok
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Sounds like you guys need to get her on that show Intervention...her behavior is horrible, but those are the cold hard facts of addicts...people who were once normal become these crazy monsters due to the effects of drugs and alcohol...i am in no way condoning her behavior but addiction is a powerful illness and i've known a few people who are loving caring people, but when under the effects of drugs and alcohol become monsters...i hope that she gets the help she obviously needs and that you guys can steer clear of her in the meantime.
