weirdness....

fh mom asked fh over the phone the other day if we minded if she goes to same place we will be on our HM.... yes at the same time
fh took it as a joke, which would be like her, and he said, 'um i think that would be awkward, and you can go there any other week on YOUR vacation', but then fh mom sent my mom an email saying she was shocked at the negative response her son gave her about the inquiry.... (my mom obviously forwarded me the email, because she thought it was bizarre) my mom would never think of intruding on our honeymoon....
The thing is , this doesnt seem like in Fh ma personality, i dont know whats going on.... could she be having, 'little, only boy growing up issues'?

freaked out.....

Hmmmmmm..that is odd...

What are you/he going to do with this now?? It would not be smart to let her know your mom forwarded the email...

im not telling fh that his mom sent my mom the email, im going to continue letting him think it was only a joke the other day on the phone and thats it....


my mom wrote her back, in the sense that she took the email as a joke, my mom wrote something like' the nerve of those kids not wanting their parents intuding on their honeymoon ;) and then she wrote, but seriously we should all try to plan a tropical vaction sometime next year after all this wedding stuff is over, that would be fun....
Love, yadda'

that does sound very strange... i wonder what thats all about

I don't think she's resenting you - but who am I? I would think if it were resentment she wouldn't have vented to your mom - ya know?

your moms response was perfect though

my mom would have been like 'oh what a great idea... lets all go on the honeymoon'

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Posted by davenjess

I don't think she's resenting you - but who am I? I would think if it were resentment she wouldn't have vented to your mom - ya know?

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true, i just hope no feelings were hurt and she doesnt turn 'weird' on me... maybe she scared to think we will be alone and screwing like animals for a week?
but seriously, um weve been living together for over 2 years now... so i dunno.... just weird. I'm being paranoid.... Its just we (fh ma and me) have such a good relationship now, i hope things dont start to change as wedding gets closer....

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Posted by davenjess

I don't think she's resenting you - but who am I? I would think if it were resentment she wouldn't have vented to your mom - ya know?

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i agree.. i think that's a great point!

BTW: loveee what your mom responded back with..lmaoo

I agree, dont address it w/ her, but WHOA!!! HOLY WEIRDNESS!!!


Me, my mom and FMIL were chatting about HMs and registering and stuff. It was all in the same convo.

So FMIL says 'oh- i wanna go'

and my mom says 'what?!?! you wanna go on their HM?!?'

So fmil says 'NO- I wanna go register with them'

Wheeeww- close one. She doesnt have daughters so she wanted to do the registry thing w/ me and FH so we took her along.

I think you may have nailed it on the head with the mommy losing her babyboy theory, but stillllll dayummmmmm, that is such a bad thing to even ask for, sorry she wasn't kidding~

ps: maybe tell her you guys are going to _______ (insert farthest island from where you guys are staying) and she's more than welcome to join~

i think its a little weird
where are you guys going?

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

I agree, dont address it w/ her, but WHOA!!! HOLY WEIRDNESS!!!


Me, my mom and FMIL were chatting about HMs and registering and stuff. It was all in the same convo.

So FMIL says 'oh- i wanna go'

and my mom says 'what?!?! you wanna go on their HM?!?'

So fmil says 'NO- I wanna go register with them'

Wheeeww- close one. She doesnt have daughters so she wanted to do the registry thing w/ me and FH so we took her along.

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maybe your FMIL doesn't feel included enough? maybe it is really that i'm losing my little boy thing, like you said. it's gotta be hard for her, knowing he's grown up and starting a life and family of his own. i really liked how your mom put the whole family tropical vacation on the table that was a really great idea.

hopefully this all blows over. be careful about what you don't tell your FH, how will he react if/when he finds out about the emails??? just a thought

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Posted by Snowflake08

i think its a little weird
where are you guys going?

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St. Croix

You can split a room with her and save some money ! Now there is a tip we haven't discussed before....could you image?!

That used to be tradition back in the day for the parents....though I thought it was the brides parents that would go on the honeymoon....this day and age....NO THANKS...plan a family vacation another time.

Yeah, I think she's having issues with her son moving on...expect it to get worse as time goes on...if it doesn't that's good, but still expect the worse....this could possibly be a foreshadowing of things to come, unfortunately...

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

I agree, dont address it w/ her, but WHOA!!! HOLY WEIRDNESS!!!


Me, my mom and FMIL were chatting about HMs and registering and stuff. It was all in the same convo.

So FMIL says 'oh- i wanna go'

and my mom says 'what?!?! you wanna go on their HM?!?'

So fmil says 'NO- I wanna go register with them'

Wheeeww- close one. She doesnt have daughters so she wanted to do the registry thing w/ me and FH so we took her along.

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I definitely wouldn't want her to be there when we register. I hope she doesn't go with you. At least FMIL knows I had my own apartment and have a few good things we won't need to register for like a george foreman grill and blender FH just tells her I had a lot of things, but I don't say what I plan to register for yet