Well the cat is out of the bag...

Because of a brewing world war 3 I now know everything about my shower. It all started when my mom and sister,moh, began planning my shower. I knew they had started planning and urged them several times to contact all the girls when planning. Obviously, they didn't listen, as they booked a date without the other girls knowing. Then when they told them, via e-mail(all of my BMs are in different states) it turns out that one couldn;t make it on that day. Also my sister assigned jobs for each BM to be responsible for. Two of my BMs did not want to chip in for a BP gift and prefered to buy their own gift. They also did not want to divide all the money equally and would absorb the cost for their job, so they could spend more on my gift. I guess people began taking things the wrong way and the 2 bms began getting very heated with my moh. Today I get a call from one of the bms saying that they are having a problem with my sister and that they had to call me beacause it was getting out of hand. To my sister's credit, this the first time she has ever done anything like this, and I led her into this whole arrangement of assigning jobs because that is how I did it for FSIL's shower. She was working really hard to give me the shower I really wanted. So I call my mom and tell her all of this and she gets mad at the BMs for involving me and in the middle of all of this slips that my shower is on April 30th. Now everyone is mad, I'm upset and they have to change the date. And to top it off FSIL wrote a very condescending email to my sister probably because she wasn't in control of everything.

So now I am in the middle. Mom and MOH were wrong not to ask before booking, they know that now. But I also feel the 2 BMS were wrong involving me. Part of me feels that they are doing this to get out of this. (remember the post, I can't stand my bridesmaids, yeah that was about them).

Now everything *****. I don't even want a shower. Sorry this is so long. Thanks for reading.