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Were BM dresses your decision only?

Original post by michesq

With regards to BM dresses, was it solely your deicison as to which dress BMs would wear? Did you ask for input? and if so, did you take?

Just curious as I have picked colors, which everyone seems to like, but not a dress yet.

michesq Posted:

Re: Were BM dresses your decision only?

Posted by RobNCyn

Good question Michelle. I think I am oging to take the girls input but ultimately it will be MY choice. You just can't please everyone (from my experience anyway)


i think this is my philosphy and has been my expereince in weddigns i was a BM in
Espo22 Posted:

Re: Were BM dresses your decision only?

Posted by michesq

Posted by RobNCyn

Good question Michelle. I think I am oging to take the girls input but ultimately it will be MY choice. You just can't please everyone (from my experience anyway)


i think this is my philosphy and has been my expereince in weddigns i was a BM in


see how it goes, if it doesnt go well then make the decision. But for me it was real easy, we went shopping one time and picked the dress in under an hour. No arguing or disagreements, infact one BM emailed me the day after to ask if i was sure i was ok with the choice bc it went to easy and that hasnt been her experience in the past haha and if i wanted to look more. I ended up telling her that before they even got there, i had one that was my favorite out of all of them and they ended up picking the one i liked most anyways.
redvelvet Posted:

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my MOH and i ultimately made the decision together. i asked my girls if they liked the options and ther were pretty easy going.

curlyq4458 Posted:

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I choose the color, I'm letting my girls pick out the dresses. I want them to feel comfortable. Everyone is different shapes and sizes, so again i want everyone to be happy.

WinterGrl09 Posted:

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I'm being very flexible. My MOH has hers picked out already but I posted before that I have a BM that is having a hard time choosing a dress so i'll be going with her this weekend to choose one. However my other BMs are fantastic and tell me that they'll wear whatever i want them to.

flairforfashion Posted:

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Well, I picked something that would look universally good on all my girls. They are raning from size 6-22. So, I selected a few dresses that I liked then asked them for feedback. I hate to put them in dresses that they hate. I picked something that they could use again if they wanted to.

MrsBtobe2009 Posted:

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My girls (for the most part) are easy. I have one who doesn't like anything tea length which is what I want for July. She might just be out of luck because everyone else loves them. I did want their opinions because I had to wear a BM dress I hated and I was miserable. I never told the bride, but i really want everyone to like it.

coley1027 Posted:

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ive picked out the colors that i want, and between me and my moh we will make a decision. it will get to messy since all my girls are shaped differently and i dont want it to appear that im favoring one person over the other, so i figure ill pick out 3 styles i like and then see which one all the girls look best in and go with it. i wanna be flexible, but i also wanna avoid unneccesary drama and stress

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