We're on a break....

DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:19 PM

We're on a break....

and I feel like my whole world just fell apart.
I was right...the move to Denver was my worst fear and now he doesn't know if we should be together.....

Shell84 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:21 PM

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I am so sorry to hear that, you should definitely talk to him about your fear.

karen6474 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:29 PM

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OMG i'm sooooooooooo sorry! let him know how you feel!!

Liz_Raph Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:30 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear that.

You should talk to him. Find out why he's feeling that way.

I hope it all works out.

Liz_Raph Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:31 PM

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DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:32 PM

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Thanks girls..

We have talked....and this is still how he feels.
He sounds like a different person...is acting like a different person and I love him soooo much!

branNjay Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:35 PM

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Im soooooooo sorry. I just dont understand how this keeps happening to you poor girls. When he proposed to you didnt he realize what that meant?

So many people who are engaged on here have broke up.......i swear i read something on this at least once a month.

My heart goes out to you

chrispar Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:36 PM

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Oh sweetie I'm so sorry .I hope everything works out. If you need to talk you can always FM me.

wifey08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:37 PM

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omg i am so sorry!!! wasnt he just home? wasnt everything good then? did he mention anything like that to you while he was here

Mrs.D08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:38 PM

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Where have I been? I'm so sorry What happened?

hayleyandsteve Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:39 PM

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I am so sorry to hear this!

Sometimes though, you'll find that these things work out for the best. Either you two figure out how much you REALLY love each other and want to make this work... or you find that it wasn't meant to be. I know that it must be very hard for you right now, but I think it's best that this happened BEFORE you two got married.

I'm sending you FM....

Mrs.D08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:41 PM

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Posted by hayleyandsteve

I am so sorry to hear this!

Sometimes though, you'll find that these things work out for the best. Either you two figure out how much you REALLY love each other and want to make this work... or you find that it wasn't meant to be. I know that it must be very hard for you right now, but I think it's best that this happened BEFORE you two got married.

I'm sending you FM....

I agree. Especially if you've been in a relationship for a long time. Sometimes distance helps and sometimes it doesn't. I hope everything works out for you. If you need to talk u can FM me.

DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:42 PM

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He thought we were fighting too much...well if we were then I DON'T KNOW WHERE I WAS.... cause I din't think we were. I think he is just making excuses because he wants to live his life out there and be free....he already has for the past 2 nights AND hung out with that GIRL i asked him not to and spent the night at her house

Mrs.D08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:43 PM

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Well you guys need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk. Let him know how you are feeling and where you stand.

Mrs.D08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:45 PM

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Posted by DnellD809

He thought we were fighting too much...well if we were then I DON'T KNOW WHERE I WAS.... cause I din't think we were. I think he is just making excuses because he wants to live his life out there and be free....he already has for the past 2 nights AND hung out with that GIRL i asked him not to and spent the night at her house

That's just wrong. I bet if it was the other way around, he wouldn't have appreciated that.

FancyMe1018 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:45 PM

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awww swtie i am sorry to hear this news talk things out . I'll keep you on my prayer list

branNjay Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:46 PM

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Posted by DnellD809

He thought we were fighting too much...well if we were then I DON'T KNOW WHERE I WAS.... cause I din't think we were. I think he is just making excuses because he wants to live his life out there and be free....he already has for the past 2 nights AND hung out with that GIRL i asked him not to and spent the night at her house

If hes spending time with some other girl you asked him not to see then maybe this is for the best. He obviously doesnt respect your feelings.

You are an absolutly beautiful girl and if he wants to loose you because hes being selfish he will kick himself for it later!

I know this hurts now but whatever happens happens for a reason so just TRY to make the best of it!!!!!

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:50 PM

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DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:52 PM

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and the worst part is that he's in another state and I have NO way of seeing him and I feel like this just isn't him and if we were to see eachother he would realize how much he loves me