We're on a break....

Original post by DnellD809

Apr 08, 2007 05:19 PM

and I feel like my whole world just fell apart.
I was right...the move to Denver was my worst fear and now he doesn't know if we should be together.....

DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:53 PM

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this was yesterday that it happened and then last night at 2am he called me and woke me up to tell me he didn't want to be on a break and loved me too much to lose me.
Then today he was totally different and he doesn't know if itll work out and I said maybe I should take off my ring for a while and he said OK....

wifey08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:54 PM

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not to be nosy but who is this girl? an ex or somethin or just a friend? either way if he choses to hang out with her knowing how you feel about it and spend the night than you have to consider is he even worth stressing over i know its hard but if he doesnt respect you enough to not do somethin that he know bothers you than maybe its better it happened now.

Snowflake08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:55 PM

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im sorry

wifey08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:55 PM

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Posted by DnellD809

this was yesterday that it happened and then last night at 2am he called me and woke me up to tell me he didn't want to be on a break and loved me too much to lose me.
Then today he was totally different and he doesn't know if itll work out and I said maybe I should take off my ring for a while and he said OK....

maybe you should try and keep your distance for a few days show him what it would be like without you so he can realize what hes about to lose

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:56 PM

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DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:56 PM

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yea, i'm not going to call him...I DON'T want to be that girl who forces him to be with me!

I just can't believe this is happening to me...I love him so much

wifey08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 05:58 PM

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im sure everything will work out....just give it time i am so sorry you should have a 'girls nite' with your friends help take your mind off it you need to stay occupied

angl2001 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:19 PM

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i agree with danielle i think you need a girls night to clear your head!

I am so sorry to hear this! my heart goes out to you. I hope it all works out. Maybe hes just getting cold feet. I say give it a few days and then see what happenes you guys have to talk about this so you can figureout whats really going on!

feel better sweetie!!

Rissespieces Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:21 PM

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I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I hope everything with the two of you will be okay. Feel better

PrincessJen Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:22 PM

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Posted by DnellD809

yea, i'm not going to call him...I DON'T want to be that girl who forces him to be with me!

I just can't believe this is happening to me...I love him so much

A break may be good for a while. FH & I took a break for a week in February & things have been really great since. No arguing, he's more considerate & actually having input in the wedding. It's hard now but you two will work it out.

DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:26 PM

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Posted by PrincessJen

Posted by DnellD809

yea, i'm not going to call him...I DON'T want to be that girl who forces him to be with me!

I just can't believe this is happening to me...I love him so much

A break may be good for a while. FH & I took a break for a week in February & things have been really great since. No arguing, he's more considerate & actually having input in the wedding. It's hard now but you two will work it out.

I want it to work out with us sooo bad.

MikeandJess Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:28 PM

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Whatever happens, do not let him blame his irresponsibility on your 'fighting'. Men can be such scumbags sometimes. I'm so sorry you have to go through this but I am a firm believer of everything happens for a reason Be strong.

Mrs.D08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:29 PM

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Posted by DnellD809

Posted by PrincessJen

Posted by DnellD809

yea, i'm not going to call him...I DON'T want to be that girl who forces him to be with me!

I just can't believe this is happening to me...I love him so much

A break may be good for a while. FH & I took a break for a week in February & things have been really great since. No arguing, he's more considerate & actually having input in the wedding. It's hard now but you two will work it out.

I want it to work out with us sooo bad.

How long have you guys been together?

PrincessJen Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:30 PM

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Posted by MikeandJess

Whatever happens, do not let him blame his irresponsibility on your 'fighting'. Men can be such scumbags sometimes. I'm so sorry you have to go through this but I am a firm believer of everything happens for a reason Be strong.

I concur!

DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:31 PM

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Posted by Mrs.D08

Posted by DnellD809

Posted by PrincessJen

Posted by DnellD809

yea, i'm not going to call him...I DON'T want to be that girl who forces him to be with me!

I just can't believe this is happening to me...I love him so much

A break may be good for a while. FH & I took a break for a week in February & things have been really great since. No arguing, he's more considerate & actually having input in the wedding. It's hard now but you two will work it out.

I want it to work out with us sooo bad.

How long have you guys been together?

2 years

branNjay Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:34 PM

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Posted by DnellD809

Posted by Mrs.D08

Posted by DnellD809

Posted by PrincessJen

Posted by DnellD809

yea, i'm not going to call him...I DON'T want to be that girl who forces him to be with me!

I just can't believe this is happening to me...I love him so much

A break may be good for a while. FH & I took a break for a week in February & things have been really great since. No arguing, he's more considerate & actually having input in the wedding. It's hard now but you two will work it out.

I want it to work out with us sooo bad.

How long have you guys been together?

2 years

I am so sorry for you!!!!! Be strong tings will work out for the best!

DnellD809 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:36 PM

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Posted by branNjay

Posted by DnellD809

Posted by Mrs.D08

Posted by DnellD809

Posted by PrincessJen

Posted by DnellD809

yea, i'm not going to call him...I DON'T want to be that girl who forces him to be with me!

I just can't believe this is happening to me...I love him so much

A break may be good for a while. FH & I took a break for a week in February & things have been really great since. No arguing, he's more considerate & actually having input in the wedding. It's hard now but you two will work it out.

I want it to work out with us sooo bad.

How long have you guys been together?

2 years

I am so sorry for you!!!!! Be strong tings will work out for the best!

thank you

Princess Cut Bride Posted: Apr 08, 2007 06:46 PM

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I'm really sorry you are going through this hardship. I hope things work out for you both.

GinaBambina08 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 07:02 PM

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I actually went through this before FH and I got engaged, things were going great, and then all of a sudden, he wanted a break! So i'm like, what for? What aren't you sure about? I know i'm a good woman, and if he doesn't know that by now (it was a year and a half at the time) then something is wrong. So whenever he called for about a week or so I would just ignore his calls or just make myself too busy for him. After we spoke for the first time in a while I told him I didn't have time for breaks and that he needed to decide whether or not he was willing to live without me. And he made the right decision...sometimes you have to give guys some tough love so that they realize how easily they can lose you so that they try extra hard to keep you... I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through...I know it's hard...but I think you should try not to make yourself too available to him for a little while...