I'm annoyed with FH today and I'm thinking about the things he does that pisses me off. Most things are just lttle pet peeve types of things that usually don't even bother me too much. The thing I've come up with that bothers me more than anything else is that he can be flaky. He often makes plans to do something, whether it be with me or his friends, and then when the time comes he decides he 'doesn't feel like it.' He's kind of a 'good time Charlie' he does what he wants, when he wants. Tell me your FHs do something that gets on your last nerve and it's not just me!
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His addiction to sports and fantasy sports. Name the game, he loves it, knows all the players and is on a fantasy league (or two, or three) for it. What he claims is his only hobby (it isn't) takes up a lot more of his time than I would like it to. I am a 'football widow', a 'baseball widow' and a 'golf widow'.
It is NOT a coincidence that we are getting married between the end of football season and the start of baseball season. If he even thinks of putting on ESPN during our honeymoon, I swear I'll throw him overboard!!!!
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Posted by JLP
His addiction to sports and fantasy sports. Name the game, he loves it, knows all the players and is on a fantasy league (or two, or three) for it. What he claims is his only hobby (it isn't) takes up a lot more of his time than I would like it to. I am a 'football widow', a 'baseball widow' and a 'golf widow'.
It is NOT a coincidence that we are getting married between the end of football season and the start of baseball season. If he even thinks of putting on ESPN during our honeymoon, I swear I'll throw him overboard!!!!
Same here!!! I hate when he reads the sports page and delibertly ignores me! Or when he spends hours betting on horse races on the internet!!!!!!
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He is really quiet in social situations, which makes me uncomfortable a lot of the time - esp. when i know we are meeting new people, going to be around my family or he has to meet my friends
however, he never shuts up when we are together - so that's all the matters to me. he is a cutie
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I hope this doesn't come off the wrong way, but what annoys me most about my FH is that I think he is too good for me! I find myself actually trying to FIND things wrong with him. Usually on weekends when he gets up in the morning he makes me breakfast, or has tea for me, he doesn't get upset when I need 'me' time, he is not a jealous person either. He does so many nice things for me that other boyfriends have never done- I guess I am just not used to it! When I find myself starting to take him for granted, I read some of my old journals where I would write about the schumks of my past who were either too into themselves or didn't know how to treat a woman.
But, of course there are SOME things I can think of... One thing is that he is not so quick sometimes! I have a very sarcastic/dry sense of humor, and when it takes him a while to catch on I get frustrated! ha. One other pretty big thing is that we have different kissing styles- I keep trying to change that, but it is hard!
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we are ALWAYS late to things....... ive gotten use to it though... he just takes alot of time getting ready
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He makes (a lot) more money than me and thinks that makes it okay for him to judge every single thing I buy. But far be it for me to make one little comment about his new video game...
Oh and sometimes he tells me what to do.
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FH's parents got divorced when he was 10 so he is used to his mother being mom and dad to him. She also kind of babies him so he expects me to do the same. It really drives me crazy!
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His love for sleeping really gets to me, enough that it's annoying.....
And then try to wake him up.... it'll take an hour .......
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My FH has this ANNOYING habit of spinning this on his finger (like how you spin a basketball). He does it with everything..plates, books, you name it. it drives me crazy Another thing that bothers me is when he is on the phone with work clinets he makes these annoying hand gestures...I'm like 'your on the phone no one can see those gestures'. They are so exaggerated also. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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farting, just because we have been together for so long doesnt mean that I want to smell your gases
MamanDaddyof2
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OH THE FARTING he taught his nephews how to fart on point also they are all so gross he thinks its fun to fart in public gross
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Mr. Neatnick, drives me crazy, if one thing is out of place or not clean, it's the end of the world.... UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OctBride05
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he is very messy, and NEVER cleans up after himself. also, he always has to talk to me when i'm on the phone, it's so annoying.
Wintersbride
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I love my FH like crazy, but I must admit there are things: He is kinda messy...I'll leave out the details for ya!
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FH got himself into trouble AGAIN last night. He told me he was going out for his friends bachelor party. He was going to a strip club with them, but he wasn't going to go to Mohegan Sun because he didn't have tje money and we had a lot to do today. I went to a friends bbq and went home around 1:30am thinking we would wake up early and get a lot done. I expected him to be at home. When I found that he wasn't I knew what happened. He got a little drunk at the strip club and decided to go to Mohegan. That in and of itself wouldn't have bothered me, but the fact that he wasn't even considerate enough to call me and let me know and then strolled in at 7:30 this morning. Needless to say, I told him to sleep on the couch and we wound up accomplishing nothing today because I wasn't speaking to him. I hate when he drinks with his friends. He forgets he has a fiance and becomes very irresponsible.
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My FH has been quitting smoking since we got serious. I told him that I would NEVER marry a smoker...but he's been having trouble lately...and he has been smoking often lately. I GET SO MAD!
Basically, the other things are the same as everyone else...he' s messy and doesn't even see some of the mess..but he is getting SO much better. I won't even tell you some of the foul things that I have had to yell at him for Mostly, it's just bad habbits. But hey...a good guy with bad habbits any day over the cleanest most well dressed #&% hole!
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He doesnt speak up to his family when he should! his mom 'conveniently' forgot that our oldest daughters birthday was last Friday...she didnt call her or anything and he let it go.... but if my family forgot...he'd dial the phone for me and expect me to rip into them for it... IT DRIVES me crazy...but then again...his whole family does...
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Posted by MrsBrad
He is really quiet in social situations, which makes me uncomfortable a lot of the time - esp. when i know we are meeting new people, going to be around my family or he has to meet my friends
however, he never shuts up when we are together - so that's all the matters to me. he is a cutie
Are we marrying the same man?
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Oh yeah--he picks and flicks. I got into a rage once about it. You can fart, you can even pick your nose...I have a high tolerance for grossness-just don't let me find a booger on the floor, or on the bed. (which I have been lucky enough to stumble on). I just lose my sh&T. Just thinking about it makes me laugh because I went ballistic like I never have before.
