what bothers you most about FH?

his absolute refusal to wear a watch ... the man has NO concept of time and always makes ME late!

He's a major procrastinator. I have to nag him to get things done and he always drags out things long enough to wait till last mintue to complete the task. mind you, this really drove me against the wall since we are planning a wedding.

also, his smoking... he's a walking chimney. he said that he'll quit whe new return from our honeymoon... i highly doubt it.

I think this topic is hillarious. I also agree with whomever said earlier that the closer you get to your wedding the more you notice the little things that annoy you (i.e., can I live with ____ for the rest of my life??)

I think my pet peeve would be his complete lack of willingness to use a cleaning product in our apt, but then complaining if something is messy. That and being really reluctant to ever actually just PLAN ANYTHING ahead of time just to 'leave options open.' Ugh. I'm a planner so that drives me NUTS!

But I love him :) Bumps and all. I'm sure he'd have a few interesting things to come up with about stuff I do that annoy the crap out of him too

He snores! LOUDLY!!! I'm almost forced to kick him once in a while when we go away on vacation.

snoring
and not letting me bite him

I adore him- together 8 years BUT:

1. I am constantly cleaning up after him - when I come home from being away on a trip I cringe!

2. He watches tv so loud that if I am on the phone you honestly think you are @ whatever sporting even is on.

2a.- Watching tv with him is IMPOSSIBLE- not on;ly can it make you lose your hearing but he has the gift to watch 25 shows @ once!
NEVER ask him to tape a show for you

He wont let me complain!!!!!!!!!

Sometimes I just wanna whine and he wont have it! He gets so mad when I complain about cramps, headache or anything. He thinks I just want attention!! Well, yeah I want attention but I really am in pain!!!!

FI has no idea how to save $$$$$. I make less than he does and i have saved almost all the $$$$ for this wedding. I dont know if he thinks the wedding will just pay for itself. Oh but he can find an extra $50 a month to join a gym. That killed me! Oh and he never knows how to comfort me when Im PMS. He knows I dont know why Im crying or upset I just am, you would think by now he would learn to just hug me and tell me evrything is OK instead of asking 'whats wrong with you ?' or not asking anything at all.

This is a good thread.

I am not sure what my FW thinks... but if I had to guess I think my FW would say I whine too much. Hahahaha.

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Posted by 121502

JT can't tell you one thing and get to the point. He starts like he has a story for you, then it turns into forty different things! I HATE THIS! And you can SEE people getting annoyed! It's so embarrassing sometimes!

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This made me bc it sounds like my DH....which reminds me .....

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Posted by Aga

farting, just because we have been together for so long doesnt mean that I want to smell your gases

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This used to bother me until I found the solution: Fart right back at him!
The air quality has significantly improoved since then.


The thing that bugs me the most about him is when I just want him to listen to whatever it is I'm complaining about and he comes back with something like- 'It's no big deal'

Posted by nylibride:

I think my pet peeve would be his complete lack of willingness to use a cleaning product in our apt, but then complaining if something is messy. That and being really reluctant to ever actually just PLAN ANYTHING ahead of time just to 'leave options open.' Ugh. I'm a planner so that drives me NUTS!


Exactly my issue! I just didnt know how to put that into words-Thank you--LOL--

Yes and snoring....how the hell did I forget that one!