what bothers you most about FH?

what bothers you most about FH?

I'm annoyed with FH today and I'm thinking about the things he does that pisses me off. Most things are just lttle pet peeve types of things that usually don't even bother me too much. The thing I've come up with that bothers me more than anything else is that he can be flaky. He often makes plans to do something, whether it be with me or his friends, and then when the time comes he decides he 'doesn't feel like it.' He's kind of a 'good time Charlie' he does what he wants, when he wants. Tell me your FHs do something that gets on your last nerve and it's not just me!

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He is a messy mess! It drives me crazy

I try to hold out and not clean up after him but he is insane! Nothing bothers him..until one day my messy man had no clean undies in the morning
I told him he should have done the laundry
he is getting better...SLOWLY

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JT can't tell you one thing and get to the point. He starts like he has a story for you, then it turns into forty different things! I HATE THIS! And you can SEE people getting annoyed! It's so embarrassing sometimes!

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No offense to anyone, but his cigarette smoking. It makes my hair and clothes smell, ashes get all over me when we are driving in the car, it deters him from doing things cause one hand is tied up, etc. It turns my stomach. I dont want him to get sick and leave me!

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He has a temper and really doesn't know how to handle it.

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Only one thing bothers me - he smokes.

He quit when we first started dating and a few times during our relationship, but it's never stuck. Makes me anxious all the time. He knows I hate it, and has really cut back, but I'm always afraid the damage is already done.

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this is SOOOO funny

my FH is a neat freak - although i probably shouldnt complain.

he upset me yesterday b/c i am making cry paks and he is sitting there making fun of me!! i hate that! (he has been making fun of this wedding stuff lately)

-Jenn


this was a great laugh!!

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Neat Freak?? I wish..

Ok, have you noticed that the closer you get to the wedding the more you notice your FH quirks?? LOL not quite cold feet but it's more of an awarness of what you are going to be living with
I love my FH to death but he has a bad temper and can be very messy and sometimes I think he loves his computer more than me

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He starts talking and can't shut up! The boy can talk for hours upon hours about nothing! I have learned to tune out most of what he is saying and just try to pick up on the semi important stuff! My poor brother, FH follows him around the house and chews his ear off. I am currently helping my brother with the uh-hu, yeah, yup, sure answers - so it looks like you are listening to the endless ramble.

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He's a slob
I'm instituting a new rule when we move in together. If I find anything of his on the floor I'm going to assume it's garbage....even if it is his favorite orange and green hawaiian shirt.

Oh yeah, did I mention another pet peeve of mine...the Hawaiian shirt collection, reserved for only the real fancy going out occations where he needs to get 'gussied up.'

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I am so glad to see I'm not alone here! lol! For as much as we love them, they can all still be a pain in the a$$!

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He compares me to other girls...not like my looks or anything like that. But if I get upset about something he will say 'Well others girls wouldn't care about that..or this one's girlfriend didn't get upset'...I'm so sorry but since when are you with other girls. I could care less what some other girls thinks. It's really annoying. As if now that he told me that another girl wouldn't be upset now I will change my attitude on the subject!!!!! Don't mind me, just had this fight today!!

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Procrastinator !!!

Oh, it makes me absolutely NUTS Perfect example:

I've been telling since we got engaged a year and a half ago to get his friends addresses...well, our invites went out last Saturday and you when he got the addresses??????? TUESDAY OF THIS WEEK!!!! WHY???? WHY???? WHY???? He could have just as easily done this a year ago. But NOOOOO he HAD to wait until AFTER the invites ALREADY WENT OUT. So guess what I am doing at this VERY moment??? Stuffing his friends invitations which will be going out one week later than everyone else!

There just aren't enough bangs.

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Two things...1st he can be a procrastinator in some things and the 2nd he will lend his ex-wife $$$ on a moments notice (not much but enough to be annoying). At least with the 2nd he has started to say no more, especially since we are buying a house.

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He's a slob. Also he has these grandiose (sp?) ideas that often aren't very realistic due to our salaries.

I think thats it for now. I might be back.

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my Michael smokes....and I hate it! He is working on quitting.