What did your FH actually do in the wedding planning process?
Original post by Bridex100
For the longest time, I considered FH a deadbeat Fiance because I felt he didn't really do anything. He was shocked because he felt like he was very emotionally supportive and gave lots (his definition of lots) of input.
My FH did the following:
Ceremony Musicians Tuxes
I think that is it.
He takes credit for the following but it was basically me doing all the research and him booking at the end:
Guestbook Unity Candle DJ
I think that's it!
Becks526
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FH has been great and really involved with the wedding planning. He has:
-Gone to every vendor appt. -Booked DJ & been DJ's main contact. -Booked Limo -Got tuxes -Helped me make decisions -Helped me not go crazy!
Okay, so maybe that's not a ton of stuff, but it still helps!!
Kara and Todd
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Posted by stealthgroom
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I'm not gonna lie. A little piece of me just died learning that stealthgroom is a Yankees fan.
yeah, well, having parents and grandparents from the bronx and going to 100 games over a life will do that to a man.
does it make you feel better that FW is a Mets fan?
--the stealth groom (giving meat eating, Yankees and Rangers watching, poker playing, bourbon drinking men a voice on liweddings since 10/06)
It does.
I've been to well over 100 Mets games -- From Kindergarten through Senior year of high school, my father and I never missed an Opening Day at Shea together.
My parents are from the Bronx... so the Mets were the logical Dodgers replacement.
MeNBobs
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He picked me to be his bride that's about it.
LyseeH
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Umm lets see...my DH
Picked the honeymoon tuxes-i didn't see them till I walked down dinner menu place where we got married at
Not too bad, he really left it up to me and his mom
chapel06
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pretty much all he did was show up, but he did always listen when I complained about the planning process.
vintagegirl
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lOl showed up with me to all the places we needed to go to .. lol
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his exact words on everything weve done so far was its ok honey you pick lol
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Posted by Bridex100
My FH says, 'How much does it cost?' a lot.
Then he goes
Then I
That's his definition of lots of input.
LOL - that's my FH to a tee!! he never helps with anything, but just complains about how much things cost. although, we live in AZ and we can't afford for both of us to fly back to NY to meet with vendors all the time, so I've had to do most of it alone. but still. anything that can be accomplished here, he is no help at all!!!
cuteauburnininny
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he has helped in dj photograpgher video officant hall honeymoon.
shoegal68
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HA HA!! i can relate.!! diddo for my FH!!!
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FH is the one who decided to have this wedding! He proposed and when I said 'just tell me when you want to go to city hall,' he called my Mom's parish in CI. Then we went to restaurants to figure out where to have the reception. He came with me to the photographer and to book our venue, but then his Mom got sick... So I've been kind of planning solo since then...
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he is taking care of the tuxes & DJ and writing those checks!!!!!
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Posted by Queensbebe
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I've booked everything, but he's had a say...ex:
Me: 'do you like this one or this one...' FH: 'uumm...this one'
So he's had input..but basically after I narrowed it down...does that count? Plus, I've dragged him with me everywhere!
Fh actually would rather me narrow it down. That seems to work with us. I mean after all he only cares about the food. He couldn't care less about flowers so if I narrow the choices he can make the decision. It's usually whatever is cheaper!
he usually says...whatever u want...drives me crazy!! If I knew, I wouldn't be asking you!
Oh yes and it doesn't even have to be wedding related!
