What do I do...

...with an email like this?

'Can i cum to your wedding? lol well need to know where, when. so on. cant wait....luv ya.'

Ugh.

Also, someone just texted me saying 'aren't you supposed to have a registry so I know what to get you?'

How do I respond to that?? I want cash haha. I do have a registry... but it was for the shower.

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Posted by tcotier

...with an email like this?

'Can i cum to your wedding? lol well need to know where, when. so on. cant wait....luv ya.'

Ugh.

Also, someone just texted me saying 'aren't you supposed to have a registry so I know what to get you?'

How do I respond to that?? I want cash haha. I do have a registry... but it was for the shower.

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OMG! Do you know who emailed you that?

tell them bed bath and beyond, get the gift and return it for the cash! take off all the cheap stuff and put big stuff on it!

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

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Posted by tcotier

...with an email like this?

'Can i cum to your wedding? lol well need to know where, when. so on. cant wait....luv ya.'

Ugh.

Also, someone just texted me saying 'aren't you supposed to have a registry so I know what to get you?'

How do I respond to that?? I want cash haha. I do have a registry... but it was for the shower.

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OMG! Do you know who emailed you that?

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Yea, it is this girl who was my best friend in like fifth grade... she sent me a MySpace message. I intentionally lost touch with her because she said something rude to me about my fiance when we tried to get back in touch a few years ago... it wasn't anything big and I doubt she remembers... I wouldn't have a fit if she was at the wedding or anything, but it's not like I just forgot to invite her.... I feel like for sanity's sake I should just send her the info. She's in Virginia and the wedding is a week and a half away... chances would be she can't come right?

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Posted by Karen9508

tell them bed bath and beyond, get the gift and return it for the cash! take off all the cheap stuff and put big stuff on it!

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LOL u can do that??? I thought I could only get store credit. Hmmm... i like the way you think

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Posted by tcotier

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

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Posted by tcotier

...with an email like this?

'Can i cum to your wedding? lol well need to know where, when. so on. cant wait....luv ya.'

Ugh.

Also, someone just texted me saying 'aren't you supposed to have a registry so I know what to get you?'

How do I respond to that?? I want cash haha. I do have a registry... but it was for the shower.

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OMG! Do you know who emailed you that?

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Yea, it is this girl who was my best friend in like fifth grade... she sent me a MySpace message. I intentionally lost touch with her because she said something rude to me about my fiance when we tried to get back in touch a few years ago... it wasn't anything big and I doubt she remembers... I wouldn't have a fit if she was at the wedding or anything, but it's not like I just forgot to invite her.... I feel like for sanity's sake I should just send her the info. She's in Virginia and the wedding is a week and a half away... chances would be she can't come right?

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I'm surprised she wasn't embarrassed to write the email. You would think she would have gotten the hint that she wasn't invited by now! LOL



I guess if you have room at the RH and you really don't mind then invite her. I don't think I would though! I wouldn't want her to pass another comment on my day!

at her grammar!

If I were you I would explain that she is more than welcome to 'cum' to the ceremony and leave it at that. Hopefully, she'll get the hint.

Unless of course, your ceremony is taking place at the same location as the reception in which case I would just say that as much as you appreciate her wanting to attend, you were put in the difficult position of having to limit your guests because of finances, etc. Hope this helps and good luck!

OMG i honestly would not know what to do in your situation, knowing myself I would probably invite her because I would feel bad even though I would be so pissed off. I don't know, maybe you can just ignore it?? maybe hide from her till the wedding is over and say you were so busy with planning that you forgot her invite....hmm i don't know if this will work, but she'll get over it...maybe

I think she knows that she was not invited and is just pointing it out. i'd ignore it unless she says something again and then just apologize for being put in the difficult situation needing to limit guests!!

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Posted by tcotier

...with an email like this?

'Can i cum to your wedding? lol well need to know where, when. so on. cant wait....luv ya.'

Ugh.

Also, someone just texted me saying 'aren't you supposed to have a registry so I know what to get you?'

How do I respond to that?? I want cash haha. I do have a registry... but it was for the shower.

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First of all who writes the word come 'CUM'. ha ha

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Posted by 92008Bride

If I were you I would explain that she is more than welcome to 'cum' to the ceremony and leave it at that. Hopefully, she'll get the hint.

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So I ended up writing her back and saying

'The wedding is next weeked lol... but if you can make it, you're more than welcome to come!'

She lives in Virginia and she has a young daughter, I just don't see her being able to make the trip.

I was making favors with my BM's last night and one of them flipped out when i told her lol, she's convinced this girl is going to 'cum' now.

As for the registry thing, I just texted that friend back and said 'No...' lmao, we were hoping he'd get the hint, but apparently he got the registry info from one of the BM's he's friends with. Ahh well.

Thanks girls!!!

lol! be careful though- you'd be surprised and at the zeal of some people!!

that reminds me of one I got... a week after I got engaged, I got a facebook 'wall' message from this guy who I literally haven't seen since the day of my HS graduation... he went and joined the marines... saying 'Congrats- Let me know when the wedding is, I'll definitely show up- I am bored!!'

what the hell do I say to that?? lol, weirdo! I just ignored it and never answered

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Posted by Autumnbride03

lol! be careful though- you'd be surprised and at the zeal of some people!!

that reminds me of one I got... a week after I got engaged, I got a facebook 'wall' message from this guy who I literally haven't seen since the day of my HS graduation... he went and joined the marines... saying 'Congrats- Let me know when the wedding is, I'll definitely show up- I am bored!!'

what the hell do I say to that?? lol, weirdo! I just ignored it and never answered

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LOL, people are so clueless!!!!

Yea, you can be like, you never got my invitation???? wow must have gotten lost like your email did!

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Posted by Mat049

Just ignore the email.. if she asks, be like i never got that email. haha

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too bad it shows when it's read :(. I'd love to use that on a ton of people haha