What do you expect of your MOH and BP?

What do you expect of your MOH and BP?

I think everyone has different expections of their MOH and BMs. Would anyone care to share their opinions. I mean in terms of how much they should do, how much they should be available to help, how much they should spend, having an opinion on the dress, should they have to have their hair/make up done, etc.... pay for the shower. Anything along these lines. Just wondering what the popular opinion is.



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In all honesty, I hope they all work together and throw me a shower and bachelorette party. But most importantly I would hold them responsible for payment and alterations of their dress and purchasing shoes. Oh and who can forget.....getting to the church on time!!!

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I expect my MOH and my BP to just be supportive and excited for me. To listen to my indesive craziness and offer their opinions when asked. Of course, a little shower and a bachelorette GTG is nice and attending the fittings for their dress and paying for it and their shoes is also helpful.

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hey danielle how are you

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i just want them to support me and be happy... i don't really expect much except to buy their dresses and stuff for the day

i know they ahve their own lives and when they have time to do things with me then that is awsome
i am doing amny things with my parents

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If they just show up I'm happy!!!!

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i want them to be there and help me through the day. i only have 2 girls so i do not expect much else.

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I think there is soo much expectations on the BP that a lot of people back out because they don't want to be in that sort of pressure. I just want the people I care about to stand up for me on my wedding day. Of course I expect them to pay for their dress and what ever comes along with that, but everything else is whatever they seem fit to take care of. They are the closest people to me, so they know that I don't ask much I just want them there!!

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Don't expect much. LOL Most of my BP and MOH live out of town. So I really didn't expect much from them because they were spending so much money flying to NY anyways. Some of my girls flew up to NY for my bachelorette party 5 months before my wedding. I was upset my with My MOH she really didn't seem there for me. I didn't expect her to come to my bachelorette party or do my shower...but, I did expect a couple of phone calls to ask how I was doing with the planning. NOt even a card.

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Well, I didn't expect much and that is exactly what I am getting

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Posted by daisybride

Well, I didn't expect much and that is exactly what I am getting

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Ditto for me!!! Except one (not MOH), mine are completely detached. They have their own lives, but it just pisses me off that I was supportive of theirs.

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i expect them to show up

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Um, I expect them to have at least A LITTLE enthusiasm about my wedding, to at least pitch in for the shower, to organize a bachelorette party and to buy their dresses. Other than that, they're pretty off the hook. As someone else said, they have their own lives and my wedding is certainly not the center of it.

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I expect my MOH to be there for me with moral support and advice when I need it (which she has, wonderfully) I expect her to help me out with little things if I ask her too (which I rarely do). I expect them to pay for their dresses on time (hasn't happened yet), buy their shoes and get them dyed on time, get/pay for their hair & makeup; get together and throw me a bachelorette party & shower. I expect them to show up for rehearsals and rehearsal dinner. Show up to the wedding on time and help things go smoothly that day (as opposed to making things more difficult). That's pretty much it.


I don't think that's too much to ask. I don't even ask that they be enthusiastic or excited or even happy for me or listen to me blabber on about wedding stuff and most them aren't very enthused anyway.

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