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LIWeddings Archive Posted: Mar 13, 2001 04:55 PM+
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What do you think?

A good friend of mine spilt the beans last night about my shower, it's this weekend. I was suspicious but because of how my fiance has been acting I didn't think it was this weekend. I didn't want to know about it but she absent mindedly said 'Hay you must be excited for your bridal shower this weekend'. I couldn't believe what I was hearing, it was very funny but at the same time I was upset that I found out. I don't know what to do, do I go on playing dumb to my fiance or do I let him know that I know. I hate lying to him but what he doesn't know won't hurt him. My wedding isn't for a while so I am supposed to be completely suprised so I know they went through alot of trouble doing it this way. He will eventually find out because I am sure my friend will spill the beans again that she told me. Do you think it will hurt him if i don't tell him that I know, or should I let it be and if he asks then tell him?
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Mary Posted: Mar 13, 2001 05:11 PM+
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Posted: Mar 13, 2001 05:11 PM bride-minus.png

What do you think?

I wouldn't tell him. If he eventually finds out that you knew, I am sure he will understand why you didn't tell him. Just remember that all these people are there for you and to celebrate your upcoming wedding. The fact that it isn't a surprise doesn't change what the day is about.
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MichelleW Posted: Mar 14, 2001 04:35 PM+
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Posted: Mar 14, 2001 04:35 PM bride-minus.png

Just Act Surprised :-) *NM*

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