What has been the most stressful in your planning process?

Original post by alioop4282

Aug 02, 2006 07:44 PM

Just wondering..

For me it has been choosing music and the invitation list.

JIFFY Posted: Aug 02, 2006 09:48 PM

Re: What has been the most stressful in your planning process?

Centerpieces and PAYING FOR IT!

I keep having a recurring nightmare that I won't have enough money to pay people at the end of the wedding.

Keywi231 Posted: Aug 02, 2006 10:20 PM

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paying for it me and FH are all on our own we had to take a loan out!!!! i dunno how we are doing it but we are

ChrisnAmy Posted: Aug 02, 2006 10:23 PM

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Not going to believe this one......REGISTERING!

You would think it would be a fun thing to do......not With my FH.....he Wants to know How The Consumer Reports rate each and every appliance. I'm just saying.....pick A color pick a style pick something.

I'm giving up.....and Doing it without him! aughhhhhh!

DandS Posted: Aug 02, 2006 10:24 PM

Re: What has been the most stressful in your planning process?

Posted by MJDoc12

Posted by msf32

- My FH and parents fight over who will pay for the wedding. Each wants to. Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine anyone would fight over that

seriously---i WISH i had this problem. just give me the excess moolah that is left over when they dish out cash for yours!

WOW I think we all wish we had that problem!!!

DandS Posted: Aug 02, 2006 10:25 PM

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the lack of rsvp's and so many people saying no.

Omg me too..this is actually probably the worst thing as I'm going through it right now!
ARGHHH

I know - I mean, shouldn't family come to your wedding??? I travelled all over NY and MA, oh and CT for their damn weddings and they can't come to mine.

Ugh..tell me about it..I totally feel your pain.
My rsvp date was yesterday and I'm still waiting on SO many responses and I'm getting really p*ssed off.

Mine's next week, but I know that not everyone will get there's to me on time - why must people be such procrastinators???? I get an invite in the mail and I sent the RSVP within a day of getting it.

Our wedding will be more friends than family now, which is hurtful, but what I can I do. Invite more friends?

Aww..I'm so sorry you''re going through this.
People can be such jerks sometimes.

Yes they can!!! I'm almost to the point that I'll give it back to them when there day comes - whether it's a wedding or a family thing!

I'm am so sorry that your family is doing this to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

msf32 Posted: Aug 02, 2006 10:29 PM

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Seriously, I would have said the same thing before it all happened. But being caught in the middle is so not fun and all the arguments really wrecked the happy glow of the engagement. Will I be happy once the day is over and I'm attempting to buy a house? Definitely! Sorry if I sound ungrateful--I just can't believe the things people will fight over.