What if...

Hpothetically....If you happened to run into the girl that your ex cheated on with you for 2 years without either one of you knowing..and you know she still doesn't know..and they are now married. would you say something to her?

I say no.. whats in the past is in the past... but what if hypothetically he still emails you saying how he misses you etc.. (even thought you ignore every single email).

Just a question....

let it be....POOR GIRL!!!

Yea thats what I think... that poor poor girl.. and she looks so happy... and I know of other girls he cheated on her with as well.

clearly this is not hypothetical

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Posted by gporka23

Yea thats what I think... that poor poor girl.. and she looks so happy... and I know of other girls he cheated on her with as well.

clearly this is not hypothetical

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i got you...lol

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Posted by WishfulRinne

Ok... I wouldnt say anything. Its not worth it. Keep ignoring the emails. Its just what you said the past is the past. I might even go as far to say Stop emailing me, trying to get in contact with me. If I got annoyed enough!

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Yeah I don't think i could ever destroy someones life like that..I just needed to vent because for the first time ever I found out who she was and I was just shocked.... I hope he is a better person now for her, she looks so happy and I feel so bad.

He cheated on her with me for 2 years and then some other ppl as well after me. What an A hole

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Posted by GRod2Be

I would block him from emailing me and not even bother with any of them.

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He is blocked. His emails go to a spam folder that I just delete. He actually hasn't emailed in a month or so. I think he might have got the point lol

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Posted by gporka23

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Posted by GRod2Be

I would block him from emailing me and not even bother with any of them.

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He is blocked. His emails go to a spam folder that I just delete. He actually has emailed in a month or so. I think he might have got the point lol

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O jeez he's one of those stalker guys that talks all this smack of i miss you since they dont have you anymore and know that you have moved on...ugh!! lol

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Posted by JamieAnt06202009

Maybe send her an anonymous email or something. I feel like her life is going to be ruined if she marries him.

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Its done.. they have been married since April..Poor girl.

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Posted by gporka23

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Posted by JamieAnt06202009

Maybe send her an anonymous email or something. I feel like her life is going to be ruined if she marries him.

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Its done.. they have been married since April..Poor girl.

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Oh wow that's even worse. Some guys are just a$$holes. What a jerk. That's good that you have all of his emails go into spam so you don't even have to think about him. Poor girl.

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Posted by JamieAnt06202009

Maybe send her an anonymous email or something. I feel like her life is going to be ruined if she marries him.

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Yeah, even though she has married him already, maybe you should send an anonymous message or something. Only bc I'm a big believer in putting yourself in another persons position. For example, if this was happening to you, what would you want? someone to tell you, or would you rather not know. I would want someone to tell me. Just bc she has married the jerk already doesn't mean that her life is over and she can't possibly get out of that crappy situation. These kinds of situations are always tough. JMO

well..fh works in town buildings and sees this all the time...its quite disgusting.... guys pretend they get calledin to do ot and they are really having hookers at the local firehouse....this is what happens and not for nothing but the wives who have no clue about where their men are all hours of the night...they are pretty dumb if ya ask me. i am not saying that everyone that has been sheated on deserves it...but come on....there are signs and some women just ignore them...whether its because they are afraid to be alone or they are just too blind to see it.... If it was me...stranger or not...I'd want you to tell me....but thats just me.

you say you'd ruin a life...but if you ask me...its already ruined....and then what happens when she has a child... I am not saying that you should go track this chick down and tell her but in some situations....it IS the righ thing to do...think about your own lives....if i was sleeping with your fh...would you still marry him?

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Posted by JJC

well..fh works in town buildings and sees this all the time...its quite disgusting.... guys pretend they get calledin to do ot and they are really having hookers at the local firehouse....this is what happens and not for nothing but the wives who have no clue about where their men are all hours of the night...they are pretty dumb if ya ask me. i am not saying that everyone that has been sheated on deserves it...but come on....there are signs and some women just ignore them...whether its because they are afraid to be alone or they are just too blind to see it.... If it was me...stranger or not...I'd want you to tell me....but thats just me.

you say you'd ruin a life...but if you ask me...its already ruined....and then what happens when she has a child... I am not saying that you should go track this chick down and tell her but in some situations....it IS the righ thing to do...think about your own lives....if i was sleeping with your fh...would you still marry him?

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I agree with you 100% AND this kind of thing can happen to anyone.