Here's some background...FH and I have been trying to conceive for about a year and a half now. We were originally going to stop trying as the wedding came closer. But then we thought about it and said if it is meant to happen then it will and we will just have to postpone the wedding. So as of right now I am not preggo, and if I do I will only be like 4-1/2 months so no biggie.
I just wanted to see from the girls that are about 7-9 months away from their wedding, what would you do if you found out you were pregnant?
Iluvpoodles
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Posted by stinenandy2010
first jill thats adorable!!!
as for me, i would postpone the wedding, for me personally no way would i be pregant on my wedding day....i guess i feel like i wouldn't look as beautiful or something. but thats my opinion.
Haha thank you! I'm right there with you. I just wouldn't be able to enjoy myself the way I'd want to if I was pregnant. I wouldn't feel as confident. I'd be afraid people would be judging. Not that they wouldn't if I was toting my 1 year old down the aisle with me (at least some of my family LOL!). But it's still different.
If you weren't that far along, you could always not tell anyone. That's what my cousin did lol.
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honeslty, it would upset me A LOT.... I am not ready for children at all. I have always dreamed of the big wedding and to give that up is something that would bother me forever. I know that sounds selfish but I am still young and don't have children so I feel I can still be a little selfish
Same here, I want a big fancy wedding and I don't want to have to worry about anything else that day except the wedding. I would also be upset because I'm just not ready to have my own children yet. But I would have the child, and postpone the wedding for a little while so I could still do the big wedding.
However, even if I were to get pregnant right now, I'd still have the baby 3 months before the wedding. So technically, if I got pregnant RIGHT NOW, I'd carry on as planned.
