What if...

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Posted by jilliibabii

Haha thank you! I'm right there with you. I just wouldn't be able to enjoy myself the way I'd want to if I was pregnant. I wouldn't feel as confident. I'd be afraid people would be judging. Not that they wouldn't if I was toting my 1 year old down the aisle with me (at least some of my family LOL!). But it's still different.

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well maybe if you guys get cracking after the wedding you can provide us with another RB or FG (try and make ti a FG cuz I already have 2 RBs.... no pressure )

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by stinenandy2010

first jill thats adorable!!!

as for me, i would postpone the wedding, for me personally no way would i be pregant on my wedding day....i guess i feel like i wouldn't look as beautiful or something. but thats my opinion.

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Haha thank you! I'm right there with you. I just wouldn't be able to enjoy myself the way I'd want to if I was pregnant. I wouldn't feel as confident. I'd be afraid people would be judging. Not that they wouldn't if I was toting my 1 year old down the aisle with me (at least some of my family LOL!). But it's still different.

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I would definitely reminde everyone when I am greeting them..'By the way, I;m not fat, I'm pregnant...So glad you could make it!!!'

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Posted by KatieG2010

I'd call off the wedding.. get married in city hall and that's that.

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me too

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Posted by RGEC47

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by stinenandy2010

first jill thats adorable!!!

as for me, i would postpone the wedding, for me personally no way would i be pregant on my wedding day....i guess i feel like i wouldn't look as beautiful or something. but thats my opinion.

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Haha thank you! I'm right there with you. I just wouldn't be able to enjoy myself the way I'd want to if I was pregnant. I wouldn't feel as confident. I'd be afraid people would be judging. Not that they wouldn't if I was toting my 1 year old down the aisle with me (at least some of my family LOL!). But it's still different.

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I would definitely reminde everyone when I am greeting them..'By the way, I;m not fat, I'm pregnant...So glad you could make it!!!'

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Exactly!!

And Jessie, don't hold your breath for that honeymoon baby! Though Dan might start putting holes in the rubbers right after the wedding. He's THAT anxious.

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Posted by soontobecruz

honeslty, it would upset me A LOT.... I am not ready for children at all. I have always dreamed of the big wedding and to give that up is something that would bother me forever. I know that sounds selfish but I am still young and don't have children so I feel I can still be a little selfish

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I don't think this is selfish at all! It's just responsible! You want to enjoy your youth and your time to yourself while you still are able to. I'm 23- I don't want to be pinned down by a kid yet. I wanna go back to school, I wanna travel, I wanna buy a home, I wanna enjoy my time as a newlywed. And besides, if it is selfish, that's what being young is all about.

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by soontobecruz

honeslty, it would upset me A LOT.... I am not ready for children at all. I have always dreamed of the big wedding and to give that up is something that would bother me forever. I know that sounds selfish but I am still young and don't have children so I feel I can still be a little selfish

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I don't think this is selfish at all! It's just responsible! You want to enjoy your youth and your time to yourself while you still are able to. I'm 23- I don't want to be pinned down by a kid yet. I wanna go back to school, I wanna travel, I wanna buy a home, I wanna enjoy my time as a newlywed. And besides, if it is selfish, that's what being young is all about.

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Thanks... I'm 27 but I still think I am 23 a lot of the time

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Posted by soontobecruz

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by soontobecruz

honeslty, it would upset me A LOT.... I am not ready for children at all. I have always dreamed of the big wedding and to give that up is something that would bother me forever. I know that sounds selfish but I am still young and don't have children so I feel I can still be a little selfish

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I don't think this is selfish at all! It's just responsible! You want to enjoy your youth and your time to yourself while you still are able to. I'm 23- I don't want to be pinned down by a kid yet. I wanna go back to school, I wanna travel, I wanna buy a home, I wanna enjoy my time as a newlywed. And besides, if it is selfish, that's what being young is all about.

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Thanks... I'm 27 but I still think I am 23 a lot of the time

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Haha, you say that like 27 is old!! Pshh! You're only as old as you feel!

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Posted by soontobecruz

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by soontobecruz

honeslty, it would upset me A LOT.... I am not ready for children at all. I have always dreamed of the big wedding and to give that up is something that would bother me forever. I know that sounds selfish but I am still young and don't have children so I feel I can still be a little selfish

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I don't think this is selfish at all! It's just responsible! You want to enjoy your youth and your time to yourself while you still are able to. I'm 23- I don't want to be pinned down by a kid yet. I wanna go back to school, I wanna travel, I wanna buy a home, I wanna enjoy my time as a newlywed. And besides, if it is selfish, that's what being young is all about.

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Thanks... I'm 27 but I still think I am 23 a lot of the time

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I'm thinking just like you and i'm also 27 lol soooooooooo young!

but seriously i would be very upset... i'm not ready for children, not yet at least. but at the same time i'm scared to let too much time pass.

I would be reaaaaaally upset...we cannot afford a baby and we don't have space for one...plus I am finally getting my masters and I'm really committed to finishing it. Also I want the wedding that I want, not an altered one.

I can't say what I'd do...it'd be a nightmare.

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Posted by soontobecruz

honeslty, it would upset me A LOT.... I am not ready for children at all. I have always dreamed of the big wedding and to give that up is something that would bother me forever. I know that sounds selfish but I am still young and don't have children so I feel I can still be a little selfish

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i feel the exact same way. we dont want to have kids for a few years so we can buy a house, travel, and just enjoy being married before kids come. I am not ready to give up the social life we have yet.

i don't know what I would do about the wedding though if it did happen. it would depend how far along i'd be at the wedding.

It would not be an ideal situation, since we are moving to a 5th floor walkup!!!! Imagine lugging a stroller down 5 flts of stairs??

I really want to wait and enjoy being married and become financially stable before any fat babies arrive (and they will be fat - FH's rolls had rolls!)

i would go with the flow. FSIL is 4 months pregnant and they are getting married tomorrow! they 've been plannin this wedding for almost 2 yearrs!! but what could they do? they werent able financially to postpone the wedding nor did they want to. and they aer so psyched about the baby!

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Posted by cateydee

i would go with the flow. FSIL is 4 months pregnant and they are getting married tomorrow! they 've been plannin this wedding for almost 2 yearrs!! but what could they do? they werent able financially to postpone the wedding nor did they want to. and they aer so psyched about the baby!

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Aww, congrats to you FSIL!!!

Cancel the wedding and go to city hall. But if the wedding was only 3-4 months away, I wouldn't cancel it and go ahead with it. I just couldnt see myself walking down the isle in a wedding dress 9 months pregnant

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Posted by Jna2010

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Posted by KatieG2010

I'd call off the wedding.. get married in city hall and that's that.

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me too

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Me three. I do not think my parents would attend if I still had a wedding. Honestly - This is my worst nightmare!!! Not because children aren't a blessing but my old farty darty parents would be so disapointed!!