WHAT IS CHEATING? Bachelor party question for all! EDITED... Explanation on page 2!

Original post by violetfairy

Jun 08, 2004 02:41 AM

So let's say your fi had a bachelor party in a private home with a stripper. Which of the following things would you consider crossing the line into cheating territory (if any)?:

-Letting the stripper strip him down to him underwear

-Letting the stripper pull down his underwear

-Getting down on all fours so the stripper can whip him

-Whipping the stripper

-Touching her breasts

-Letting stripper lick whipped cream off his body

-Licking whipped cream off the stripper's nipples

-Letting her dry-hump him while he lies on the floor

-Letting her put a dildo over his crotch and pretend to give him a blow job

AND NOW THE BIG QUESTION:

Would you still marry him if you found out he had done all of the above?

Sunny Posted: Jun 09, 2004 07:35 PM

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Congrats on your upcoming wedding!

Please don't let this ruin your day, I think if it had happened a while ago you would have made the same decision, you would have just had time to adjust to the idea.

Good luck!

HearzBellz Posted: Jun 09, 2004 08:24 PM

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So, now that this is all cleared up (and I am glad you feel better about it all) Did the dress fit?

Seriously, I think you are handling this very well, and after venting and thinking it will clear your mind to have a wonderful and beautiful wedding

oakslady Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:31 PM

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-Letting the stripper pull down his underwear

-Touching her breasts

-Letting stripper lick whipped cream off his body (private parts)

-Licking whipped cream off the stripper's nipples

-Letting her dry-hump him while he lies on the floor

i could probably get over him being stripped to his underwear - and as for having the stripper whip him - well as long as he has some clothes on i could handle that too
if we got into the stuff above ^ that is where it gets different for me - that would have to get a serious conversation - and as for if it would keep him a single guy - well it depends on what happened and why - but i would have to say it might...

Maribelle7777 Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:13 PM

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You will have a wonderful wedding

nov.bride Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:38 PM

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You are going to have a beautiful wedding......
you are marrying the man you love!!!!

Enjoy your special day and have a fantastic honeymoon!!!!!!!

ETA- WHen the 2 of you take your vows through better and worse etc. it will be heartfelt and special- enjoy it!

Best of luck!

luvabul Posted: Mar 23, 2007 12:36 AM

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WOW... this was actually a thread

all of the above is cheating!

Espo22 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 12:47 AM

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Posted by luvabul

WOW... this was actually a thread

all of the above is cheating!

OMG how'd you find this lol.

WOW hmmm someone else said this and i agree, i am more shocked by the fathers actions

Kara and Todd Posted: Mar 23, 2007 01:09 AM

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What is with all the old threads lately?!

Dee606 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 08:10 AM

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I know this is an old thread but OMG!!!! What the hell was the father thinking? I could never forgive that.

qdavis Posted: Mar 23, 2007 09:16 AM

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WOW!! what a thread....i can't belive this happened to Violet....

Bridex100 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 09:57 AM

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I'm probably in the minority but I would be ok with the aforementioned. The only reason I'd be ok with it is bc I know it wouldn't have been FH's idea and it's totally not like him to do so. If his friends (also not very crazy) planned this for his bachelor party, I'd want him to have fun and entertain his friends.

I can probably only say this bc I know it isn't in FH's character. If this type of behavior was norm and may repeat in the future, I prob wouldn't want to marry that type of guy.

Christys0925 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 10:48 AM

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All the above

MJDoc12 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 10:53 AM

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LOL this thread is 2 years old everybody!!!!

Nlynn Posted: Mar 23, 2007 11:33 AM

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Posted by G&D

Oh my goodness...I think that all of those are cheating! I would be so so mad

I agree!

rojerono Posted: Mar 23, 2007 11:39 AM

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Old post... but I will still answer!

I would think he was gross and insist that he take a shower until his skin is bright red and nearly bleeding before he touched me again. But it would not be cheating in my opinion. And I would still marry his stupid ***.

FH is my best friend. It would take a lot to break the deal.