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What is the proper way to do this?

jteach711 Posted:

What is the proper way to do this?

My moms cousin replied NO to the wedding, they live in Arizona and I barely know them, but they just sent me a $100 check.

Do I send a thank you card now or wait until after the wedding and send a rwal thank you with our pic?
TIA
KK Holiday Posted:

Re: What is the proper way to do this?

send one now...and then send a formal thank you later with the others
kristi313 Posted:

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i would definitely send one now, but then send a formal one later on after the wedding

Soon 2b Mrs Bev Posted:

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I would send one now then send them your formal thank you.

roan126 Posted:

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I have a bunch of those....I'm waiting until after the wedding and will send the thank you with the pic.

jennandrolo Posted:

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thanks for asking this! i recieved 2 check from 2 people who rsvped no and i was debating on sending them something now.

markdea7699 Posted:

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now and then a formal one with the rest later

FtrMrsV Posted:

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I agree with the girls. Defintely send one now and then send a formal one afterwards.

TJ22908 Posted:

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I waited and am sending them thank yous with the rest of the people who attended

SoonToBeMrsScott Posted:

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I would send it now thanking them and tell them that you are sorry they are unable to attend

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

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Posted by KK Holiday

send one now...and then send a formal thank you later with the others


ditto
Gigi08 Posted:

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I think you should send an informal thank you note now, and then a formal one when you have the one from your photographer.

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

Re: What is the proper way to do this?

Posted by TJ22908

I waited and am sending them thank yous with the rest of the people who attended


how will they know if you've received it? I know it'll eventually show on their bank statement but in the meantime they'll think it got lost in the mail if you don't acknowledge it
jteach711 Posted:

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Thanks guys, you are the best

I am going to send an informal thank you this week.
Jumbles Posted:

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everyone who replied NO and sent a check ..i personally called and thanked them ..then when my picture thank you come in i will send them one

babygirlb Posted:

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Posted by KK Holiday

send one now...and then send a formal thank you later with the others


I agree
MrsD71208 Posted:

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This happened to me too with someone from work. I sent a thank you now and then will send one with the pic later.

Lil83108 Posted:

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You could either send a little thank you now and then when you get your real thank you's with your picture you can send them one of those too...or you can just wait and send the real thank you after the wedding.

rachie Posted:

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We received so many checks with the replies NO. I would absolutely send a thank you card now and state in the thank you how they will be missed and houw thoughtful it was of them to think of you and dh at this time
baba123 Posted:

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I agree, I would send one now, and then one after the wedding with your pic, that would be a really nice gesture IMO

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