What is the 'right' thing to do?

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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05

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Posted by RedHead

IF you ask a question be prepared to get responses...NOBODY WAS RUDE HERE...Not until someone got defensive

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No one was rude here RedHead? You want me to start posting like you do? Well here it comes...let's see if you can handle it when it is you who is being attacked.

Last time I checked, calling someone selfish is not a 'polite' thing to do. Not that you would know anything about that from your history on these boards. You took a post that I was sincerely torn about, one in which I asked for people's opinions on the situation, not to make judgments about me and turned it into a fiasco.

Clearly you are the selfish one because you have no concern or respect for the feelings of others, for the feelings of someone who has lost a loved one. Maybe you never have...and you are lucky to not have experienced such pain in that case.

You have NO class...and I am going to get honest and real with you here. You are truly a PATHETIC individual. I have seen way too many posts on here where you come in and attack people and it is unneccessary.

I remember specifically, one post in which someone started a thread asking about the well-being of another poster who had been MIA...other posters chimed in, expressing their concern. You post and rip everyone apart, saying they are not really concerned and then proceed to talk about a website you are aware of (and most likely a part of) that is designed to specifically make fun of people on this site.

Now, how pathetic is that? I have a very full life. I work full time, I am planning my wedding, I have a lot of family and friends. I love LIWeddings because it is a great resource. However, I do not have that much time to post because unlike you, I have a very full outside life.

If you have enough time to post here all the time with your nasty comments and additionally make time to go out of your way and 'make fun' of people on here in another forum, then maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself and your life.

Aren't you a newlywed? Why don't you spend some more time with your husband? Perhaps you need to research some hobbies.

Going on a web forum and attacking people you don't know is truly pathetic, especially when they are dealing with sensitive and painful issues.

GET A LIFE REDHEAD!!!! You are one pathetic, sad individual. I pity you.

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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05
No one was rude here RedHead? You want me to start posting like you do? Well here it comes...let's see if you can handle it when it is you who is being attacked.

Last time I checked, calling someone selfish is not a 'polite' thing to do. Not that you would know anything about that from your history on these boards. You took a post that I was sincerely torn about, one in which I asked for people's opinions on the situation, not to make judgments about me and turned it into a fiasco.

Clearly you are the selfish one because you have no concern or respect for the feelings of others, for the feelings of someone who has lost a loved one. Maybe you never have...and you are lucky to not have experienced such pain in that case.

You have NO class...and I am going to get honest and real with you here. You are truly a PATHETIC individual. I have seen way too many posts on here where you come in and attack people and it is unneccessary.

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