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What should I do??

MsRtoMrsK Posted:

What should I do??

If people come to your wedding, but don't give a gift, do you send a thank you card just saying 'thanks for coming' or don't send one??

I'll tell you that the three people I'm talking about is
1) My maid of honor/best friend (who claims she left the gift at home but has yet to mail it out or give it to me, but there are other issues with our friendship since our wedding)

2) My sister in law...but she's on her own planet most of the time anyway...

3) My DH's cousin (which i think he didn't give a gift bc he was an OOTer and doesn't really have a high paying job)


What would you do?? TIA!

RandEWedding2011 Posted:

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I had people come to our engagement party and didn't give...I still sent a card saying Ty for sharing our special day..HTH

MsRtoMrsK Posted:

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That's what I thought too....maybe this will make them remember that they didn't give a gift (just kidding....maybe only a little)


THANK YOU!!!
mtk1605 Posted:

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I only had 1 non gifter and I just said thanks for sharing our special day with us.....

Chanwich Posted:

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Definitely send a thanks for being part of our day card. Especially if you know someone isn't well off. And just be happy that everyone was there for your day, don't dwell on the non-gifters, its not worth it.

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