What wedding related thing are you dreading the most??
Original post by Im a Pepper
I'm absolutely dreading the seating arrangements. And I'm a little nervous about the Thank You cards after the wedding. I know I'm a complete procrastinator but I hope I can get them done shortly after the HM (I know that won't happen!). FH's friend got married in July and, right after they returned from their HM, we received a TY card. I was thinking they must have been writing them on their HM because how the heck did they get them out soooo quickly?!?
What are you guys dreading or worried about doing?
gina409
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well there will def be some drama with my mom because she had a stroke 2 yrs ago which left her paralyzed on her right side so i know she would want to be up there dancing,and mingling but esp walking with me down the aisle,and now she cant.she says it does not matter but i have a feeling the day of things might be diffrent..we will see what happens
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The seating chart!!!! ugh! And the father/daughter dance. I don't really speak to my dad all too often but i'm inviting him to the wedding. If he decides to come would it be weird if I didn't do a f/d dance but fh dances with his mom?
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being totally in the spotlight w/ people staring at me the entire day
little34
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RSVPs....I am horrified to deal with people not responding or putting extra people down
MirabellaNYC
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What I'm dreading isn't necessarily something tangible, I'm dreading my Murphy's law complex.. 'What can go wrong, will go wrong'. I'm definitely going to be a complete nervous nelly in those final weeks.
Fall BZ 2009
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Def dreading doing the seating arrangements.......UHH!
donnasmom09
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Finding an MOB GOWN!!!!!!!!!! Mary MOB
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im def worried about rsvp's bc there were so many issues with rsvp's for the engagement party! and of course table seating!
Autumnbride03
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INVITATIONSSSS
I'm already having nightmares with the entire process.
coldasice217
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Booking the major vendors...I'm not worried about the little detail things, because I'm super organized, concise, and punctual. I know it will all get done in plenty of time.
The major vendors though...FH and I have completely polar opposite philosophies on this. He's like morally opposed to spending money, and pretty much thinks this is all a racket, and don't even try talking to him about 'the going rate'. I'm not thrilled to be spending this kind of money either, but sometimes there's just not much you can do. I just now that by the time we go through photo, video, dj, florist, limos, etc, it will probably be closer to 12/09 than 12/08. I just can't wait for this all to be over so we can go back to being relatively normal and stop bickering over this nonsense.
BarbieGrl10
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Does paying for everything count? LOL!
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Posted by evewedsjc
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i have the whole step parent/ parent issue...
i don't want to deal with the whole walking down the aisle father daughter dance crapola... . my mom keep sharassing me and I keep ignoring it and talking about peonies...
Ughh me too!!
Mostly bc my mom is remarried and my dad isn't - and to be honest I don't even know if my dad KNOWS that she's remarried. Thinking about that whole thing makes me sick.
well at least we are all not alone in this mess..
i already asked my stepdad to walk me down the aisle and my dad does not know...
I had that problem in the begining of whose gonna walk me down the isle and then i chose both my dad and step dad and my dad threw a huge fit so to makke him happy i was only gonna have him, till he really started causing problems. Then i took a seat back and thought about it and talked to ppl and everyone told me to do whats gonna make me happy not everyone else and That means i am having both of them walk me down the isle no matter what now.
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i am dreading doing the tables and doing the thank yous cause there will be so many
he gives me butterflies
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at this very moment i can happily say nothing. i can only think of positives, i am sure there are things but for some reason i am not worried (yet )
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I am actually dreading the candy bar. I know it sounds nuts but its like 'WAHT IF THE CANDY GOES STALE? WHAT IF IT MELTS?' lol
flairforfashion
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Seating arrangements and invites. I think those two are going to be a pain in the tush.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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my cp's... im forever confused on how im gonna arrange them
Steffie
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Sorry one more thing......PAYING FOR EVERYTHING
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