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What wedding tradition are you NOT doing?

Original post by Lools

Just curious!!

We are not planning to do
the garter and bouquet toss
the bride/groom running through tunnel thing

futureMrsR Posted:

Re: What wedding tradition are you NOT doing?


Posted by Lools

Just curious!!

We are not planning to do
the garter and bouquet toss
the bride/groom running through tunnel thing



Same here !!! My two least favorite things-- dont know why...
Pencils Posted:

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We're not doing lots of stuff!

we're doing pictures before the ceremony
I'm having both my parents walk me down the aisle
no unity candle/sand ceremony/whatever ceremony--just the wedding ceremony.
No bouquet/garter toss
no receiving line
no announcement of the bride & groom or bridal party
no special dances other than our first dance
Also--no rehearsal dinner, I'm wearing ivory, and all my bridesmaids are under fifteen!

Other than the first dance and the cake cutting, we want this to be more like a really good party, not like so many weddings we've been to that feel totally scripted. After you've been to a few, it feels like you can tell what's coming next by your watch.

However, I have been told that we are going to have a hora. All I can say is, that if my FH expects anyone to lift us up on chairs, he better invite some of his weight-lifting buddies from the gym!

PattyK Posted:

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We aren't doing the garter & boq toss.

ggcopying Posted:

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bo-k garter toss
running through tunnel thing
Receiving line
father/daugther dance
mother/son dance

Ivory dress
and taking pictures b/4 ceremony
ggcopying Posted:

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instead, we are doing brother/sister dance
MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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No receiving line
No BP dance

That's probably it; I like all the other stuff and will be doing it and enjoying it
Becks526 Posted:

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No:
-bo-k/garter toss
-unity candle
-sand ceremony
-guest book or picture that people sign
-big bridal party
SusanAdam Posted:

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We are taking pictures beforehand.
We are not getting married in a church. Our ceremony is at the reception hall.
We are not doing a receiving line since we are going to our cocktail hour right after the ceremony.
No bridesmaids, GMs, FGs, or RBs. Only a MOH and a best man.
No garter toss or bo-k toss.
poogie Posted:

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No...
father walking down the isle, my two sons are walking a little ahead of me (not enough space.
(they are giving me away too)

rice
bo-k throwing (playing muscial chairs)

no garder (same thing)

no sit down (would you like chicken fish or whatever dinner *tons an tons of cocktails all night long

no tunnel bridal run in dance

no father mother dances.....dancing with our children together (family dance)

I am sure things will come up that will be NO
Lola0703 Posted:

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We did not do the garter/boq and both my parents walked me down

MJDoc12 Posted:

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--did pics before ceremony
--married at hall instead of church
--contemporary ceremony music (all i ask of you played instead of here comes the bride)
--no tunnel thingy that the BP did over us
--NO participation dances
waypis Posted:

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Not getting married in a church
No bo-k/garter
We are seeing each other before the ceremony
Christys0925 Posted:

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No flower toss and
no unity candle ceremony
No dance floor
No drinking
No ring bearer
No DJ
mycrayon1 Posted:

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The only one I think the only one we aren't doing is the father/daughter dance. My father passed away 10 years ago and so I'll be dancing with mom.

ETA: No tunnel thing (FH is too tall)
No father/bride down the aisle (itll be mom and my brother)
Oh and no guest book/picture thingy
MnM52607 Posted:

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We are not doing the garter removal or the tosses.

heatherandrichie Posted:

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garter/bok toss
no church
no relgious 'anything'
twinkletoes807 Posted:

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Posted by Lools

Just curious!!

We are not planning to do
the garter and bouquet toss
the bride/groom running through tunnel thing




Ditto!!
Elizabeth427 Posted:

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-no church
-no garter/bo-k toss
-tunnel thingy-the FH kinda wants to-i dont
RGV07 Posted:

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garter toss so far!!!!

Marly Posted:

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Not getting married in Church, we are being married at RH.
No receiving line we are going to CH right after Ceremony.
No Father-Daughter Dance ( My Father has passed on.)
No Mother-Son Dance (FHs Mother has Passed on.)
No Cake smashing I think that is childish and tacky.
No being lifted up on chairs.
No Pictures of Bride with Mother & Father (Both have passed on.)
No Pictures of FH & Mother.
No Ring Barer (I'm having a Ring Girl)
No rice, birdseed or confetti bing thrown.
No Chicken Dance or Alley Cat Dance being done.
We are taking our Pictures before hand.
No Parents walking me down (My Aunt & Uncle will be doing that.)

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