say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
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MrsSoto
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say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
agreed,
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say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
ita bc iam a young bride iam younger than her and i hate when ppl try to tell me what to do they arent my mother there not paying for my wedding after all is said and done its me and fh and our kids no one esle really matters sorry went a little off track just now
i agree. i am also a young bride and hate when people judge the relationship/engagement based on age. just congratulate them because at the end of the day it is their mistake to learn from. hth
mrsdraskin2009
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Just suck it up and be nice. It's their life...you can't do anything about it.
SummerBride10
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just say congrats...its up to her family to step in if necessary, its not your position to say anything.
jcreilly
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Just say Congrats
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say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
I agree!
asg450
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say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
I agree. I know you may really want to talk to her about her FH potentially cheating on her, but you do not want it to be thrown back in your face. In situation's like these, the messenger usually gets the bad end.
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say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
110% agree with Barb
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Posted by Ivansgirl
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say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
I agree!
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JoanneAndJustin
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Another vote for DO NOT GET INVOLVED.
I think you're being a little harsh... she's only 20, I don't expect her to work BEFORE she graduates college...a lot of people don't and turn out just fine.
He can be the Ruler of Planet A$$hole, and if you say something about what a douchebag he is, you'll find yourself minus one friend. It may be true, but Laura speaks the truth, it's up to her to leave the relationship no one else. No one likes to fail the more your harp on what an idiot he is, the harder she'll push to stay with him and prove everyone wrong.
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I would just say congrats & let it be. They will either A) learn from their own mistakes or B) have a happy life together.
GR2010
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Eh, don't get involved... I lost a friend this way... she was 26 he was BARELY 20... He was a complete jack@**, rude, immature, couldn't keep a job... UGH he was AWFUL. They got engaged after like three minutes of being together and he wasn't even old enough to drink at the wedding!! I said something to her just asking if she was sure and asked if she had considered waiting a little while before the weddding...she freaked... now they have been married for two years and have two kids and literally live in a trailer.
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say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
ITA!!!
MrsCM
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I'd congratulate them and stay out of it, they want people's support not their lectures.
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Posted by krissyt888
Posted by jayepyt
Posted by grkbarbie
say congrats. i personally would not get involved.
ita bc iam a young bride iam younger than her and i hate when ppl try to tell me what to do they arent my mother there not paying for my wedding after all is said and done its me and fh and our kids no one esle really matters sorry went a little off track just now
i agree. i am also a young bride and hate when people judge the relationship/engagement based on age. just congratulate them because at the end of the day it is their mistake to learn from. hth
ITA! i am a young bride myself..i will be 21 when FH and i get married...i know it is young but her being young has no affect on her decision to get married...it has everything to do with her maturity level..i would just congratulate her and not comment on anything else..its her decision just like it is mine and yours to marry to person we love...you might not agree with it and know that it isnt good for her but she doesnt yet ...she eventually will..ppl need to make their own mistakes to learn life lessons!
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i agree with barb as well, just put a smile on your face and say congrats, its really not your place to get involved.
